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Keep having this dream about an ex?

I am happily married with a beautiful family...we are very content in our lives.

However, I keep dreaming about my first love...someone I haven't seen in over 10 years...sometimes they are "friendship" type dreams, in others we are more intimate. We have occasionally talked in the past, but we haven't in over 6 months. He has said to me before that he dreams about me often, same type of dreams.

BTW...we have not discussed intimate things or anything like that when we talk...it's always day to day, how are the kids types of things.

What do you think this means????

Update:

The "ex" and I do not meet in person...we only speak briefly on the phone for holidays, birthdays, etc...we live several hours apart.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or that you and your ex got back together again, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person. It could also signify aspects of yourself that you have x'd out or neglected.

    To see your mate's ex in your dream, suggests that you may be comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is trying to tell you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship.

    To dream that you are making out with your ex, signifies your acceptance of certain characteristics of your ex. The dream does not necessarily mean that you want to get back together with him or her. Consider what were the things you liked and disliked about him. These are the same qualities that you are finally acknowledging within your own self.

    To see your ex-husband/wife in your dream, indicates that you are finding yourself in a situation that you do not want to be in. It suggests that you are experiencing a similar relationship or situation which makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable.

    Hope I helped! :)

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you need to see a red light when it appears, and stop all contact with this guy. Unless of course you don't mind being in the statistics as a divorcee, and a single mother trying to raise kids by herself. Set some bondaries before it is too late. This is an obvious, very obvious problem.

  • 1 decade ago

    I used to have dreams like this and I looked it up and the website said I wanted to go back to a part of my past maybe where I didn't have as many responsibilities and such..

  • 1 decade ago

    you still have feelings for him

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