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should i stay with him?
ok so i like this guy and we hung out a lot, and he was my first kiss. we started getting a little closer and i decided to ask him what he thinks of our relationship, as friends with benifits or if we would go on and have a real relationship. and he responded by saying he thinks of us as friends with benifits because if we go out then it will have to end.
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If I were you, I'd run for my life.
You're probably really emotionally attached since he's your first kiss, but if he only considers you a friend-with-benefits, he probably isn't.
In reality, this is what you need to ask yourself:
What type of relationship are you interested in (in general)? Are you a friend-with-benefits type, or a serious relationship type? Which type of relationship did you want with him?
Is he treating you the way you want to be treated? Is the relationship you have with him the relationship you want to be in?
If the relationship you want isn't a friends-with-benefits, are you willing to settle for something less than what you want? I hope you don't.
- 1 decade ago
you shouldn't have offer'd that option. Bc now knows that you are interested, but you gave him the choice of just messing around with you & being able to see other people...or just being with you & nobody else.
You kind of dug yourself a hole there. He is going to try and take full advantage of the offer you made him. If you're smart, you won't let him. But hope everything works out for you! Don't get played!
