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Dream about my boyfriend going out with someone else while dating me.?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 24 years, off and on. We have this deal where neither of us will go out with the opposite sex without the other being there. In this dream, we had helped out a woman to move or something. Then I was at home and he was gone somewhere. I decided to call and find out what he was doing. He was out with this woman we had helped. This happened twice in this dream. The second time, I screamed a**ho** into the phone and was shaking so bad that I had a hard time hanging it up (a cell phone). I could hear her saying "Why did she just call you an a**ho**?" and he said "I have no idea." I finally got the phone hung up and was so angry. When I woke up, I was kind of shocked and then laughed about it.
When I told my boyfriend about the dream, he shrugged it off and didn't think much of it. All he said was he could promise that something like that would never happen (thing is, I have heard that from him before and it has happened, so trust is an issue between us at all times where women are concerned).
Can someone possibly tell me what this dream means? Or is it just my mind telling me I don't trust him yet where women are concerned? Or am I reading too much into this dream (I rarely remember dreams or read much into dreams for that matter)?
3 Answers
- dreamgirlLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Actually, I think you just interpreted your own dream! Many times, dreams are our mind's way of dealing with deep issues, stress, or fears. Your dream was very literal, and I think it was your way of figuring out your relationship - how you feel about the other woman, how you feel about trust, etc.
When you remember your dreams, it's usually for a reason. Especially if it's tied to an emotion when you awake.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I feel as if it is a dream based on deep-seated fears about your relationship. You have been together for 24 years and it's off-and-on and not a marriage. That in itself sounds like a stressful arrangement. In the back of your mind, you probably always wonder what happens during the "off" periods. It makes you feel uncomfortable on a very deep level.
I think this is less of a trust thing and more of a commitment issue kind of thing. I believe deep down, you want more out of the relationship than the kind of arrangement where it's just not that solid and any other woman could just swoop him up.
Source(s): intuition - Anonymous1 decade ago
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.