married women dating women?

Find yourself another married woman looking for the same thing you are. Please don't break an unsuspecting Lesbian's heart. It's hard enough to find a partner without someone leading us on and then crushing us. Always remember, that Lesbians fall in love hard and fast. It's not all about sex in any homosexual relationship. A lot of straight people just don't understand that!

Seems like your husband isn't threatened by women because he's got nothing to compete with, against them...

Dating and kissing women that you aren't even attracted to doesn't really sound like it's the answer, especially since it sounds like you're just doing it because you like the idea of dating outside your marriage, rather than the experience itself of dating the women.

Also, I don't know if it means anything to you, but dating outside your marriage in general - with or without your hubby's permission - is considered infidelity... are you okay with being disloyal to your husband? Would you be okay if he was disloyal to you? It's important to take into consideration what kind of person you would be after engaging in the said activities...

Maybe you should focus more on why your marriage isn't exciting enough already that you have to turn to "outsiders" to get that high. Of course marriage won't always be exciting, but instead of looking for a temporary thrill of dating outside, solving this problem of boredom could very well help develop and deepen your marriage and your understanding of your husband, as well as escalate the intimacy (not just physically).

I think that's more morally wrong than sexually wrong.

Why would you want to date outside of your marriage..?

But either way, I don't see why you'd sacrifice real love and connection with just the "high of dating". If you MUST date outside of your marriage (which I don't understand at all), why do it with women if you're not attracted to them? This isn't high school. Going out to dinner or kissing isn't the biggest thrill in the world, and is definitely not worth risking your marriage (unless you're separating or something).

EDIT: well I understand the whole "life is boring" thing and wanting to try something new, but women are people too! Just because you're not sexually attracted to them doesn't make the relationship and less real than with a male.

Whatever your motivations are, I'm sure you would be capable of finding women who would be willing to date you. Some are kind of the other end of what you're feeling, they want the thrill of dating a married person so that might work.

Of course there's always the thought that you're being insincere with them and that its all just a big game. I guess as long as you find someone who likes that game, go to it.

Wouldn't be me, but that's why they make chocolate and vanilla, different people like different things.

You shouldn't lead people on like that (meaning, don't date lesbians) But I'm sure you could find another married women in a similarposition, that's all Craigslist W4W section is anymore anyways. Just make sure you make it clear from the beginning you aren't looking for anything sexual

Maybe it would easier to hop on a dating site... There are even dating sites for married people, they offer more descretion then the nromal ones.

There are even women in the exact same position as you are (i have an account so I browse around from time to time).. might work for you, good luck if you try it

Yeah, I would consider that wrong, considering the woman you would be dating would be a bisexual or a lesbian and just 'pretending' to be bi for your own personal high would be leading them on, which is incredibly rude.

Why would kissing women, who you're not even attracted to, give you any sort of high? You're just desperate. Get a divorce.

This is a train wreck waiting to happen.

Jerry Jerry Jerry

I think you should stay with your husband it is just wrong to go and do that