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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Will he reap what he sow?

after he told me that there was a chance of us being together , showing me pictures of his family and agreeing in who's church we would get married; after all that and being there for him, he tells me that he would never marry me , he wants a virgin and now well :I not anymore, and that his cousin is available , and i realized i was along the whole ride used and laughed at

now he is engaged to a virgin; will he reap what he sow?

Update:

no he said his cousin is available for me to entertain; mind i am going to grad school and come from a good family,

i stopped any communication with him

Update 2:

e&l he lied first he told me he is open minded; thinks i am perfect the way i am; once the money started coming in his pocket; the story changed!

Update 3:

i was a virgin when i met him; so he said i cant be trusted anymore!

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  • jude
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    everyone who hurts another gets it back. my ex husband left me for a girl he began working with, i was devastated. no one in his family would speak to me it was as if i no longer existed. but funny thing happened last year, he was trying to get in contact with me, because according to the old friends all did not go well for him and her. his love for her suddenly left as quickly as it came. now he sits alone in a small mobile home, getting older and sicker, he thought i would be waiting to come back but since i got the divorce i moved away, got remarried, bought a new home, and now live a happy life. when i forgot about hoping he would reap what he sowed, and focused on life that was when he got what was coming to him. no one gets away unscathed who has deliberately harmed someone, and how i know its in the bible.

  • 1 decade ago

    What a mean son-of-a-bitc*!! Yes. Definitely, he's gonna reap what he sow.

    Please learn your lesson. Experience is the best teacher. Those who learn from other's mistakes, are better off. Most like to not listen to advise and try to find out on their own. You have learned the hard way that it's best to save yourself until you are sure you have the right guy.

    That guy was all wrong for you. Don't worry, karma has a way of coming back and biting us all in the butt at the most inconvenient time.

    All is not lost for you. Pick up the pieces of your life. In time, you will learn to love again. Don't trust too easily. Test the waters before jumping in. Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    to ascertain that "you get carry of what you sow" to be completely genuine then existence could might desire to be an exact technology that may't be genuine pondering unfastened will. although, I do believe that to sow no longer something is to get carry of no longer something. subsequently, to sow is a sturdy practice, each and every so often what's reaped is greater effective than what's sowed and each so often it relatively is far less. The act of sowing often places chain reactions into result that are previous the sower's commentary.

  • 1 decade ago

    He will definitely reap what he sows. We all get the product of the seeds we plant. ALWAYS. His cousin is available, well, thats incest and not OK with either religion. What goes up will come down. And that karma..... It can be a B******!

    Source(s): LIFE
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  • E&L
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Did he lie to you, or was it that you did not meet the ideals he expected in a woman he marries. Sorry but if one of the prerequisites is a virgin, you had a chance to be with him . . . if you were one.

    Don't settle for his cast off cousin. Get away from that family tree.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It is not up to you to worry about what he reaps. You focus on moving on and finding a decent guy who loves you for you and not because of some stupid traits.

    Also pray that his virgin wife gives him genital warts and herpes.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stop asking this, please!

    YES karma will get him, YES he's a SHlT, YES you were used and YES, it's past time to get over this. But you just keep dwelling on it instead of finding someone better. Move on and stop wallowing in your misery.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sorry to hear that, but everyone reaps what they sow.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    take it as a learning curve - hopefully you will know what signs to look for in the future. He will get what he deserves, what goes around comes around.

  • 1 decade ago

    Thank your lucky stars for your narrow escape and pity his future wife.

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