Pregnant & Stressed because of BF :(?

you need to give him some space I am sure he is freaked out about having a kid..I am sure he hides it.Just chill out get some ben and jerrys.and watch a funny movie.He just needs a bit to himself it is his last chance to be a boy.not saying he is not a man just there is a step you have to take when you become a father.Everything will be okay.

If you were dating a few weeks it would seem normal to forget to mention a vacation until the day before leaving, but dating someone for a long time, like 3 years and doing that? He can't have forgotten about his trip. Does he know you are pregnant? Maybe he's had a bit of a freakout.

So why wouldn't he mention it to you? That's weird. No, I don't think you are wrong to be confused and irritated by this.

That said, you and your baby don't need stress. If your BF was just being a ninny and forgot to tell you and everything is perfectly innocent, then, once he returns, you'll have to sit down together and figure out what each of you wants from a relationship together. So if he's wanting a vacation, now that he's going to be a dad, that's something that should be discussed and planned together. I'm all for the annual weekend with the guy friends or ladies night(or annual weekend) out, but it shouldn't be a surprise. So talk about what you are expecting and what he is expecting.

If there is something weird going on with him or the trip is not on the level, there's nothing you can do about it now and stressing over it will only be bad for you and your baby. The baby has to be your main concern, now, and that means taking good care of yourself. Eat--even if you have to think of it as feeding your baby.

People in serious life relationships give up SOME independence for a good partnership. He should understand that. You'll have plenty of time to talk about it when he gets home. If he's just needed some time to recover from the shock of the pregnancy, then he'll need to talk about where his head is at, regarding the pregnancy and your relationship.

You can deal with that when he returns.

In the mean time, EAT some nutritious food, for your baby. Have some company and call up your friends and family to help put your mind on something else. If you can, get a professional massage to help you relax. For me, it helps to sit down and write(or type) everything I'm thinking. That way, it's like I'm literally taking it off my mind and putting it down on paper and that makes it easier to relax.

If your stress starts to feel overwhelming or like you can't control it and it's not helpful to do the above things I mentioned, then call a counselor or even your doctor for some added support.

Take care of yourself and I really hope you have a good resolution with your BF. :)

You could be freakin out a lil more than you would cause of your past experience, but I would probably upset too since he hasn't been in regular contact with you while he's gone.....

Sounds like something could be up. He's not txting you? Didn't take you with him? Only said i love you, i miss you once?

When he gets home, you have to have a SERIOUS talk with ihm.

tell him u love him and u want him back i mean who goes on holiday when there girl pregnant i mean ur a coupel ur ment 2 go together

your story is confusing me,but any ways quit stressing not good for the baby so quit being selfish and think about the baby health!

your acting perefectly normal especially with you been pregnant try ringing him and let him kinow how you are feeling xx wish you all the best

He has a lot of nerve. How can he just leave you like that? What a man?

dont really act like ur toooo involved or whatever but still he should step in and act like he cares!! try counseling

when he gets back tell him you were worried bc of what happened in your previous relationship