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I need help everybody?? This is something dealing with my paretns and my boyfriend of 8 months!!!?

Hi.There isn much to say but then there is. Me and my boyfriend have been together off and on for the past 8 months.We had a very rocky start and that included getting my parents approval.He is my first true boyfriend. However my paretns at first wasn't so happy about us and didn't let us go anywhere. And then after the met his parents they lighten up. We have went places and he has even spent time at my family functions. But...it's the summer time he graduated, and I have one more year left. But my mom is acting really unfair and not letting me do anything with him alone. Like today I asked if we could go play basketball atthe park and she said it was going to rain,so that was understandable. but then I asked if we could go to the landing and she flat out said no. i know he is tired of us not having alone time like we both want....WAT SHOULD I DO???? PLZ I NEED ADVICE!

Update:

And yes we have had movie days at the house plenty of times and we have had many days where he came and chilled on our patio.This is not about having sex with him.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    This may not be what you want , to hear lil' lady but, this is what is best I promise you. The respect for you parents should always come first. God said honor thy mother and father and you shall live long upon the land. If your boyfriend does not want to respect your parents wishes then let him leave. He should have the sense to respect your parents if he truly loves you. I promise that as soon as you graduate and finally living on your own you will thank your parent s for every time they corrected you and guided you. I am a 23 year old man and no matter how many times they were unfair and not let me stay out later from my curfew I still love them and thank them for everything. YOU ARE WORTH THE WAIT!

    Source(s): Past experiences
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Instead of taking the no as a final answer. Just ask why. And if it makes her angry then just talk quietly, don't get angry yourself and keep calm. Tell her that its affecting your relationship because you're not having any alone time. Also if your boyfriend truly loves you, you should keep in mind that no matter what your parents say or do, he should stick with you.

    I have the same problem with my parents and i've been with my bf for 15 months. But i don't have the guts to stand up to my parents but i hope you do. It would really help. All the best x

  • 4 years ago

    Honey, please get your self into therapy. you're youthful. you have an entire lifetime earlier to you. this is obvious via the failings you stated interior the warmth of the 2d which you have never been uncovered to healthy place fashions for relationships. some issues ought to never be stated. You stated a number of those issues. and that i ask your self what he stated to you? he's top that now could be in all hazard a powerful time for the two certainly one of you to take some area. Use the area to artwork on your matters with a therapist. Then, if this is meant to be, you and your bf could have a extra suitable hazard of growing to be your courting artwork. And your toddler would be happy you got the help the two way. For the record, i think of mixed toddlers are easily attractive. and the quite a few maximum enticing human beings interior the international are biracial. solid success.

  • 1 decade ago

    I dnt really no.... u need someway of showing ur parents that u 2 can be sensible if ur alone 2getha.... its like those things in da movies like if u go in the back yard togetha..... and ur laaughin havin fun and then the parent looks through the window and sees ur sensible.....sumthin like that....

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  • 1 decade ago

    you need to earn your parents trust, you

    should.... maybe invite him over to hang out MORE around

    your house, maybe have movie dates in your living room, or whatever

    your allowed to do, my parents used to be the same way... just make

    sure you NEVER get caught donig anything "un appropiate"

    tell your boyfriend to act RESPECTFUL around your parents, using manners and such (please and thank you) treating you with respect, so being kind, opening doors, not kissing in front of them.. whatever...

    parents dont want to think about their baby girl having sex, SO you have to make them believe that your not (if this is what this is about)

    if its not about this, and you honestly just want to be alone with him, sit your mom down and tell her straight up "were not having sex dont worry, you can stop being so crazy and trust me"

    but if you are having sex, i dont suggest telling them, just work on gaining their trust, and playing up the sweet innocent baby girl your supposed to be, while your boyfriend has to act like a faithful honest boy with pure intentions. hahahahhahaahah

    i hope this works out.

    i know what its like to sneak around on my parents, and as fun as it was.... getting caught wasnt that great.

    xo

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sneak out or hav him sneak in at night

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    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    They are your parents and you can't really change their minds, but you can try.

  • 1 decade ago

    idk wish i could help though

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