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Should i do something or say something?
I don't know if anyone has ever seen the movie "he's just not that into you" But i can relate to it. They say that you can be with someone for a long time and he doesn't want to marry you, and that he will eventually be married, just never to you. I normally talk to guys for a while and they feed me lines like "i need to gain your trust" and what not. They never want to put the label on it, i can be hanging out with them for months, then they meet another girl and a week later they're boyfriend and girlfriend! I understand that I wasn't the right person for them but its just ridiculous.
Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now,and we've been spending alot of time together. We both agree that we're getting to know each other at this point. I'm trying to determine if there will be a future with us or not. He's a very quite guy and i couldn't even imagine him talking about this kind of stuff,that's partly why i haven't brought it up, i also don't want him to think im rushing things. He's already taken me to meet mostly all his family, and he's definitely a gentleman.
I'm okay with him not being my boyfriend right now,but is this going to be another guy who wastes my time? What should i do..or say?
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Just be yourself when you are with him. Deep emotions like love don't happen overnight. Show him your true self and if he happens to like that, he cannot resist himself and he will eventually open up to you and tell you what you want to hear. For the meantime, enjoy every moment with him.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Don't say anything right now. It is just the beginning and you may scare him away. This topic is too heavy for a beginning of a relationship. He will go at his own pace. You can ask him if you could introduce him as your bf already.
When I first met my guy we had been going out for a few mos but we never made anything official so I took that as a hint to date others and we worked together so it was really easy to flirt with some stranger and get numbers right in front of him. Well this one guy kept talking to me and coming by to see me and he wanted to have lunch and that is when my current bf went over the edge and finally gave me a present and asked if we could be exclusive. I know what I did was dirty and pushy but sometimes a guy needs a lil shove to gain some perspective on a situation.
Do what you have to do to see where you stand, but marriage and kids and a far off future is not really appropriate this quick in the relationship.
P.S. Many people get married and are happy after years of dating and if they don't than that is probably because they are happy where they are at.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Maybe he is shy.Give him some time and space.A relationship starts from a close friendship.Then tell him how you feel about him.See how he reacts.Maybe he just wants to be your friend and no more than that.And like the other person said,be yourself.If he truly loves you,he will love you for who you are.If you feel like talking to somebody I will always be here for you.I think I'm a little younger than you,but I still understand...Good luck! :-)
- 1 decade ago
If you really like him i would bring it to his attention you want more than just friends that you are serious about him and you would treat him good, but you also said you met allot of his family that is a really good sigh right there !!!!! If hes a gentlemen you wont have any problem's talking to him.
he sounds like a good man do not let him get away !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK
