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  • How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me and let me in?

    I feel a little dumb asking this question even, but I'm desperate. I care deeply for my boyfriend and I would never do anything to hurt him. However,he has been hurt badly in the past.. I know he wants to be with me because if he did'nt we wouldnt be..but i cant help feeling as though he's making himself not care about me because he doesnt want to let down his guard. Besides reasuring him and giving him time..what else will make him let me in rather than pushing me away? Normally in this situation id let him go, but theres something special about him and all his friends are telling me to just give him time and not give him. PLEASE help.lol

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Is he no longer interested?

    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month now. We are always doing stuff with his family. I invited him to come eat dinner with mine tonight for the first time and he said he didn't want to. Now the way I see it is, if a guy really cares about a girl he'll definitely have dinner with her family if she wants him to..especially since I always hang out with him and his family.Its not like he had anything important to do, he went and hung out with one of his buddy's. My best girl friends think I should cut it off now and save myself the heartbreak.

    I like him..but little signs hes been showing me are slowly but surely pushing me away. He's done more for me than any other guy ever has, but i still feel like I could be treated better. Not to mention, hed know by now if he wanted me as a girlfriend, and he still hasn't made anything official..whenever i bring up the subject he'll brush it off..he'll say something like "i really like you" and then change the subject. Its starting to drive me crazy trying to figure out whats going on in his head. Is it even worth TRYING to find out?? What should I do??

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • I have really bad anxiety/panic attacks...Can you help me?

    Ive just started having panic attacks withiin the last several months..i have seen a doctor several times and i just started a medication that i take once a day for them..Around the time i started having panic attacks, i also started being really dizzy and hhaving really bad headaches. I went and had a cat scan done but they didnt see anything wrong.. Why am i dizzy 24-7? And why am i having such horrible headaches?? Parts of my body such as my legs will also go numb sometimes, as if somethng was wrong with my blood circulation.

    4 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • It may just be me, but I feel like we're drifting apart..i need advice!?

    I feel like my man and I are getting distant..

    I have a past of guys finding better exciting girls when they're dating me,then leaving me for them. Im afraid its going to happen again,and I really don't want to loose this guy. He's great. What are some ideas to spice up our relationship??? Please helpppp

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Go Go dancing............................?

    I'm thinking about doing it..what do yall think about it??

    1 AnswerDancing1 decade ago
  • Yall,don't let me loose this one. Please help me!?

    I feel like my man and I are getting distant..

    I have a past of guys finding better exciting girls when they're dating me,then leaving me for them. Im afraid its going to happen again,and I really don't want to loose this guy. He's great. What are some ideas to spice up our relationship??? Please helpppp

    2 AnswersDiet & Fitness1 decade ago
  • Sooo am i his girlfriend or what?Need help!Mostly from guys?

    Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks. We've gotten pretty close,but haven't actually discussed if we were gf and bf. The other day i was talking to him and i was saying i wished i was tall, and he said he didn't i asked why and he said because he didn't want a tall girlfriend. Does this mean he sees me as his gf or was he just talking? I sound like a little girl,lol but this really just confused me. It also sucks because i feel like im falling for him, and i really want him to fall for me too, i understand its gotta happening time, but guys,is there anything your girlfriends/ex girlfriends said to you to make you fall, or did they do any specific stuff to make you realize you loved her??

    9 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • I have extremely bad panc attacks, i feel like i cant breath 24-7?

    I dont only have shortness of breath when i get panic attacks, but its 24-7...i am alwayyys yawning and always taking deep breaths,and sometimes i cant even fully take a deep breath. Im trying to make myself not afraid of panic attacks,but what else can i do??? I just want to feel normal again. Please helpp

    6 AnswersHeart Diseases1 decade ago
  • I need ideas for conversation starters and things to get his attention!?

    Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now, we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend,yet..

    He's a very quite guy,and i'm really trying to get to the point where him and I can talk about anything,or at least alot more than we do now.

    I feel like he may think im not interesting because i don't have a whole lot to say while we're on the phone and whatnot..

    What kinds of things can i say,or text him to get his attention,and to seem more outgoing. Im extremely outgoing,its just that hes so quite i don't really know what to say around him! haha

    Also, what kinds of text messages can i send him, or what kind of things can i say to him to seem sexier..??

    Please help meee

    9 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • What kind of stuff such as text messages should i send my guy to get his attention?

    Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now, we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend,yet..

    He's a very quite guy,and i'm really trying to get to the point where him and I can talk about anything,or at least alot more than we do now.

    I feel like he may think im not interesting because i don't have a whole lot to say while we're on the phone and whatnot..

    What kinds of things can i say,or text him to get his attention,and to seem more outgoing. Im extremely outgoing,its just that hes so quite i don't really know what to say around him! haha

    Also, what kinds of text messages can i send him, or what kind of things can i say to him to seem sexier..??

    Please help meee

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • I dont want to loose this one..please help!?

    I don't know if anyone has ever seen the movie "he's just not that into you" But i can relate to it. They say that you can be with someone for a long time and he doesn't want to marry you, and that he will eventually be married, just never to you. I normally talk to guys for a while and they feed me lines like "i need to gain your trust" and what not. They never want to put the label on it, i can be hanging out with them for months, then they meet another girl and a week later they're boyfriend and girlfriend! I understand that I wasn't the right person for them but its just ridiculous.

    Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now,and we've been spending alot of time together. We both agree that we're getting to know each other at this point. I'm trying to determine if there will be a future with us or not. He's a very quite guy and i couldn't even imagine him talking about this kind of stuff,that's partly why i haven't brought it up, i also don't want him to think im rushing things. He's already taken me to meet mostly all his family, and he's definitely a gentleman.

    I want to hold on to him the best I can..

    I'm okay with him not being my boyfriend right now,but is this going to be another guy who wastes my time? What should i do..or say?

    4 AnswersWomen's Health1 decade ago
  • Should i do something or say something?

    I don't know if anyone has ever seen the movie "he's just not that into you" But i can relate to it. They say that you can be with someone for a long time and he doesn't want to marry you, and that he will eventually be married, just never to you. I normally talk to guys for a while and they feed me lines like "i need to gain your trust" and what not. They never want to put the label on it, i can be hanging out with them for months, then they meet another girl and a week later they're boyfriend and girlfriend! I understand that I wasn't the right person for them but its just ridiculous.

    Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now,and we've been spending alot of time together. We both agree that we're getting to know each other at this point. I'm trying to determine if there will be a future with us or not. He's a very quite guy and i couldn't even imagine him talking about this kind of stuff,that's partly why i haven't brought it up, i also don't want him to think im rushing things. He's already taken me to meet mostly all his family, and he's definitely a gentleman.

    I'm okay with him not being my boyfriend right now,but is this going to be another guy who wastes my time? What should i do..or say?

    4 AnswersLanguages1 decade ago
  • Can yall please help me out?

    I don't know if anyone has ever seen the movie "he's just not that into you" But i can relate to it. They say that you can be with someone for a long time and he doesn't want to marry you, and that he will eventually be married, just never to you. I normally talk to guys for a while and they feed me lines like "i need to gain your trust" and what not. They never want to put the label on it, i can be hanging out with them for months, then they meet another girl and a week later they're boyfriend and girlfriend! I understand that I wasn't the right person for them but its just ridiculous.

    Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now,and we've been spending alot of time together. We both agree that we're getting to know each other at this point. I'm trying to determine if there will be a future with us or not. He's a very quite guy and i couldn't even imagine him talking about this kind of stuff,that's partly why i haven't brought it up, i also don't want him to think im rushing things. He's already taken me to meet mostly all his family, and he's definitely a gentleman.

    I'm okay with him not being my boyfriend right now,but is this going to be another guy who wastes my time? What should i do..or say?

    1 AnswerPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • What should I do?Help please?

    I don't know if anyone has ever seen the movie "he's just not that into you" But i can relate to it. They say that you can be with someone for a long time and he doesn't want to marry you, and that he will eventually be married, just never to you. I normally talk to guys for a while and they feed me lines like "i need to gain your trust" and what not. They never want to put the label on it, i can be hanging out with them for months, then they meet another girl and a week later they're boyfriend and girlfriend! I understand that I wasn't the right person for them but its just ridiculous.

    Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now,and we've been spending alot of time together. We both agree that we're getting to know each other at this point. I'm trying to determine if there will be a future with us or not. He's a very quite guy and i couldn't even imagine him talking about this kind of stuff,that's partly why i haven't brought it up, i also don't want him to think im rushing things. He's already taken me to meet mostly all his family, and he's definitely a gentleman.

    I'm okay with him not being my boyfriend right now,but is this going to be another guy who wastes my time? What should i do..or say?

    1 AnswerLanguages1 decade ago
  • NEED GUYS ADVICE!What would be....?

    Mkay say you broke up with a girl a week ago because you felt like she didnt trust you,and you also felt a little tied down.

    You guys havent seen each other in a week..

    Say you ran into her at a party or something.

    What would be something extremely hott for your x to do to get your attention and make you realize you want to be back with her?

    This is a strange question i know, but just think about it..i need your advice!!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • I miss him. How do I make him jealous and want me back??

    My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago because i "didnt trust" him.So he started to feel tied down. I miss spending time with him. We don't talk anymore, and when i try to, he doesnt want to. I want him to want me back..and for things to be like they were a week and a half ago. What are the best ways to get your x back/get back together with them/make them jealous..anything!???

    Advice pleeeeease.

    14 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Whats the best way to make an x jealous?

    What is the best way to make an x jealous,and realize they shouldnt have broken up with you.

    This may sound stupid, i know.

    I just need advice.

    thnxxx

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • i miss him, whats the best way to get back together with him???

    I may sound like a total idiot for asking this but i've never dated the same guy twice. My boyfriend broke up w/ me last friday bc i was having trouble trusting him..and he was getting tired of feeling like i didnt and what not,it was making him feel tied down....im starting to realize now that there wasnt really a reason for me not to trust him, i really care about him and i miss him sooo much. I miss his friendship the most, and since we broke up we havent been talking really at all.. I want to get back together with him. How do i do that?lol please help!

    thnx

    xoxox

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Whats the best way to get back with someone???

    I may sound like a total idiot for asking this but i've never dated the same guy twice. My boyfriend and I broke up last friday bc i was having trouble trusting him..and he was getting tired of feeling like i didnt and what not...im starting to realize now that there wasnt really a reason for me not to trust him, i really care about him and i miss him sooo much. I miss his friendship the most, and since we broke up we havent been talking really at all.. I want to get back together with him. How do i do that?lol please help!

    thnx

    xoxox

    10 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • How do you get back together with someone?

    I may sound like a total idiot for asking this but i've never dated the same guy twice. My boyfriend and I broke up last friday bc i was having trouble trusting him..and he was getting tired of feeling like i didnt and what not...im starting to realize now that there wasnt really a reason for me not to trust him, i really care about him and i miss him sooo much. I miss his friendship the most, and since we broke up we havent been talking really at all.. I want to get back together with him. How do i do that?lol please help!

    thnx

    xoxox

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago