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I need ideas for conversation starters and things to get his attention!?

Ive been seeing a guy for several weeks now, we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend,yet..

He's a very quite guy,and i'm really trying to get to the point where him and I can talk about anything,or at least alot more than we do now.

I feel like he may think im not interesting because i don't have a whole lot to say while we're on the phone and whatnot..

What kinds of things can i say,or text him to get his attention,and to seem more outgoing. Im extremely outgoing,its just that hes so quite i don't really know what to say around him! haha

Also, what kinds of text messages can i send him, or what kind of things can i say to him to seem sexier..??

Please help meee

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  • 1 decade ago

    Not to sound like a broken record just be yourself and just have fun. What will really win him over is just being fun and enjoying life and being spontaneous is key. As for being sexier being sexy is a state of mind and is all about how you carry yourself. If your bubbly and smiling and have good language that can come off as being sexy. You could text him I am outside your door naked and see how he reacts lol. I will leave it up to you if you actually do that but that would prove your pretty fun and spontaneous :)

    Good Luck

    Source(s): been in the same boat before
  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    after you've been out with him.

    text him and tell him he looked really cute that night and put a smiley face. and tell him you cant wait to see him again.

    and when youre with him ask him about his day. if you want him to know youre interested every time he talks to you make him feel like hes the most important thing ever.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well.. if he's quiet just start a conversation about something you did that day or anything.. just don't talk too much.. He might think that you're really annoying. Make sure that he knows you're interested or else he might just leave.. I've gone through that and I made sure I didn't do that again.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    In my opinion, it depends in his and your personality... you shouldn't fake what you're not, specially if you're looking for a relationship, cuz he will find out.

    Try to be yourself, if you wanna text him just do it. About what? Anything! Be random, funny, try to make him laugh and smile.

    You can also ignore him for a little bit like, don't answering his msgs for a day.

    Sometimes boys like to be ignored o_0 that makes u kinda attractive to them ;P

    Good luck n' get that boy! :D

    Source(s): meh :D
  • 1 decade ago

    Be yourself. If you really like him and feel you can tell eachother anything, don't be afraid to tell him how you feel and to say anything you want. Let him know that you like him and you feel you can tell him anything, maybe he will open up and not be so quiet. He sounds shy and will open up, just give him time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Love is the most unstoppable force in the world

  • 1 decade ago

    ask him when was the last time he seen a nude woman. he will wake up then men love to talk about ladies and being undressed.

  • 1 decade ago

    'are you from Tennessee because you're the only ten i see'

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