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Is he no longer interested?
I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month now. We are always doing stuff with his family. I invited him to come eat dinner with mine tonight for the first time and he said he didn't want to. Now the way I see it is, if a guy really cares about a girl he'll definitely have dinner with her family if she wants him to..especially since I always hang out with him and his family.Its not like he had anything important to do, he went and hung out with one of his buddy's. My best girl friends think I should cut it off now and save myself the heartbreak.
I like him..but little signs hes been showing me are slowly but surely pushing me away. He's done more for me than any other guy ever has, but i still feel like I could be treated better. Not to mention, hed know by now if he wanted me as a girlfriend, and he still hasn't made anything official..whenever i bring up the subject he'll brush it off..he'll say something like "i really like you" and then change the subject. Its starting to drive me crazy trying to figure out whats going on in his head. Is it even worth TRYING to find out?? What should I do??
2 Answers
- 1 decade ago
I think that inviting a guy to meet your family after a month is definitely way too soon, even if you've met his family.
The thing is, guys like the chase, and it doesn't sound like you are allowing yourself to be chased. You've gotta play the dating game a bit. Don't immediately return his phone calls or texts - don't let him think that you're always there for him. Don't bring up the subject of being official - that's really really pushy.
It's not a surprise that he's pushing you away since you seem to be rather pushy. I would advise slowly backing off - like I said, don't return phone calls, etc. He'll start going crazy and think, where is she, why isn't she calling me?!! Play the dating game for a bit more!! Don't give all your cards away too soon.
- 1 decade ago
you seem to have a good prospective on this relationship. Ultimately you would want him to appreciate your family and spend time with them like you do his. You would also like him to be getting closer to you not backing away.
A little over a month isnt a long time to date someone before going exclusive but your looking for an exclusive relationship and he wont approach the subject he may not want that kind of relationship.
You may want to looking into dating someone else. Some people like to date, others like to get to know one person at a time. If you dont feel like you want to date other people while dating him.
I would suggest not being high hopes on this relationship going the distance. Its seems he either isnt that into you or he has some issues he needs to work out.
