Love issue..... fantasizing others while making love?

I don''t know if you should tell her. Do you think she will dump you over this? Because if you tell her, she might think that you find her unattractive, this could (most probably) cause problems in your relationship. If this is so, then don't tell her.

I would definitely be offended. Don't talk to her about this.

I suggest making the sex more...FUN. Try doing different

thing while having sex, get a karma sutra book if you need to.

This is how my boyfriend and I have an interesting love life and

we have been together for over a year. Try new positions, new

games, and even dress up for each other if you like that kind of

thing. Maybe you should even try waiting a week before you have

sex again so the next time you make love to her, it will be a lot

better for both of you. I hope I helped :)

Dont tell her!

ofcourse its normal, it is possible to love someone, be attracted to them, but fantasies about someone else. Who knows, she may be doing the same thing!

whatever you do though, dont tell her, its probably just a phase,

some people like, roleplaying, some like other types of "fetishes" you like thinking about someone else. Afterall thats what costumes are for!

I suggest letting it run its course.

The important thing is that you love her, she know you love her, and that you make her happy, in life and sexually, so as long as your happy and she's happy, why ruin a good thing.

You'd be an idiot to tell her. Just try spicing it up a little.

honey, WHATEVER YOU DO, do not tell her.

you will really screw it up. i believe this is something you just gotta keep to yourself. because i know that if my boyfriend told me, even though i am not sensitive... i would be pissed. and because you say that she is sensitive, its going to throw everything off, and things probably wouldnt go back to normal after holding this conversation. i know that you may not think i am right. but i hope you take this advice when i say do not tell her, if you want to be with her.

its normal for this to happen. its not like youre a weirdo or something. its just not something a dude shares with his woman.

if you want to get your sex drive back to normal, try spicing things up in the bedroom for you two

Sometimes it happens even to me. I'm fantasizing that i'm having sex to somebody and not to my husband. Maybe because sometimes we are thinking how it feels to have sex to that person. i know it's weird, but it happens! Better not to tell her!

I think you should cut down on the proportion of your life you spend having sex, and maybe. Just maybe you may appreciate it more.

stop watching porn, you probably watch way to much porn and now its getting out of hand.

do u watch porn? if u do ..then stop it. its killing u slowly. If not then am not sure wuts wrong with you ..it wld be smth to worry about.

heres an idea, stop watching porn.

It happens...just dont tell her.