am i wrong who agree?

yup...and/or just preparing to break-up. I don't think people change their habits in mid-stream without some clue to their significant other as to their reason, unless they're hiding something. Possible that you are a compulsive shopper and driving the budget into debt so he's hiding the cookie jar?

if not, how bout a quiet moment talk w/hubby and Better get the kleenex ready.

Cheating. IDK. Sounds fishy. He did give you the money because you were living together and paying for things together, is what it sounds like. Do you work too? Are you providing? If you are not, yet in charge of the bills, he may think that since he is providing he should be in control of how the money is handled out. If he were cheating on you, sooner rather than later he would be really super nice to you. Because to him, after he cheats, he needs to make himself feel better by making you feel better. he might buy you something out of nowhere or just be really happy to help you with the dishes. Has he changed his style out of nowhere? Started caring about small details of his hair or clothes before he heads out by himself? yeah, he lied to you about shopping, it doesn't take three hours to pick up a bag of items. He was not shopping, thats for sure. running into a friend at the market, okay, 10 minutes, 20 extra minutes maybe, but not three hours.

If he is saving up all the money he can, he might be preparing to leave you. Do you share a residence? An apartment or a house? Can you afford to live there by yourself if he does leave? Where can you go?

Is he buying anything, little gifts that you thought were yours but ended up missing? Usually a cheating man will be extra super nice to you, after the affair has been in swing for a few weeks. he will also start dressing better and caring about the small stuff.

Check his e-mails. you have every right if you believe he is cheating on you. DO NOT LET HIM KNOW, or you are ******* yourself. don't tell him you went through his e-mails and if you find something, a letter or correspondence between him and someone else, forward the email to your address, delete the sent e-mail from his out box, and log off his name. save this e-mail by printing a copy and keeping in safe and print another copy and leave in an envelope for your mom to keep. you don't have to tell her whats in it, just hold it for ya. that way, if **** does hit the fan, you have your ducks in a row. If you are married, it doesn't sound like you are, then you will just have a harsh break up.

I hope everything works out, but you wont know until you do some digging. check out the internet history. if he is deleting it when he is done, this is a strong sign of him hiding something or someone.

Honey, He could be. But he could also be doing lots of other perfectly harmless things.

I would fix a nice dinner and make sure you two will not have any interruptions and let him know about the changes that you have noticed.

Let him know what he means to you and how worried you are about your relationship. Do this in the least threatening way possible. Don't be judgmental just say what you need to say and then listen.

I wish you the best.

Do what Kim Kardashian did with Chloe's two-timer bf and call w/that service that sneeky-devils into his voice-mail. yeeaaaahhh, that's the ticket. I thought that was so cool how she did that. I wonder what that service is and how to get it...anyway, good luck.

Be ready.

It sounds like he could be. I've seen enough "Cheaters" and had enough personally experiences to know that these are the key signs of an unfaithful partner :-\ you should approach him about it.

I think he is, come on he is hiding something, and instead i think you should investigate or call cheaters, do something about it don't just keep him try to lie to you, making stuff up!

something is definitely up. You need to check it out. Don't acuse him until you are sure what exactly is the problem.

definitly with out a doubt u should bail b4 it gets to deep...but by the sounds of it....yeah....

yes

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