BF problem or not, is it selfish of me?

You have every right to question him on his hobby.

I wouldn't get all mad about it, since most guys would not tolerate irrational female behavior...so confront him with it as an adult...you can still express your opinion in calm manner.

If you speak to him in a calm manner, he will respond in turn the same way....no need to get into a heated argument.

My GF and I talk calmly when we need to discuss things.

Only by keeping it calm in manner, there will be less misunderstanding and bad feeling about it.

How we resolve it is we reach a compromise...a relationship is not based on "you obey what I say"...it is based on mutual benefit, two people coming to an agreement.

from a guys point of view. Don't get mad at him it's normal for people to look up pornography. even married couples watch porn without their partner. If anything you should be happy that he's looking at porn, if you haven't had sex yet then most likely he is viewing the porn to understand how the body works so when the time comes he knows what to do. What makes you so upset about it? its completely and perfectly normal?

you're going to have to deal with it whether you like it or not and if you still have a problem with him watching porn then yes. you are selfish.

If you feel that he is looking too often - then it could be a problem (addiction). Aside from that...unless it conflicts with your religious views or anything...I don't see a problem. It's normal. If you make a big deal about it - he'll just hide it.

Of course, when you catch him looking, you could always say something like, "That chick looks like your mom/sister/aunt/etc." :-D

When he asks REAL women (non-paid) for pornographic stuff - that's when the real problems start rolling in.

I understand your concern but it is totally normal. Be glad that he does not hide it from you. Trust him when he says that you are all he is looking for. Also, look at it this way do you rather him look at porno or look at real obtainable girls on the street? And your not selfish just not use to being open. Being open and understanding makes your relationship stronger don't make him feel like he can not be open with you.

would not look like each and every little thing is appropriate if hes treating you like that.... in basic terms think of the way it must be a 300 and sixty 5 days or so in the past... this is going to basically worsen you gotta supply him a decision even cope with you greater appropriate and supply you the honour you deserve or you will pass away.. and if he quite you pass away then cope with you like an excellent individual then isnt that an illustration that he won't be the single for you? in no way permit somebody cope with you like **** in basic terms by way of fact which you adore him, love is blind dissimilar the cases... in case you settle directly to pass away him, you will harm for awhile yet ultimately you will discover somebody greater appropriate and comprehend that the way you have been dealt with in the previous grew to become into in no way well worth it.

Guys will be guys but seriously if he is doing it right in front of you that is wrong...and well he shouldn't be hiding it from you either. Does he not respect you at all? Again, guys will be guys and well that just seems to be a part of their sexual nature. No, you are not wrong for having an attitude about it.

i can feel the anger you must have towards that and im a guy and i think your guy is just selfish. what kind of guy has the nerve to watch other naked women and such with his gf around or telling her this. i know porn is a guy thing and ive looked at it myself. but also just because a guy looks at this. it doesnt mean he thinks less of u and cares moe about the porn. you should simply just ask him to choose between u or the porn or to just simply ask to do that on his own time. not the time ur with him and such. hope i helped a bit

its not wrong of u to be mad but its normal 2 look at that stuff. Talk 2 ur bf ask him if he wont watch it as much.

I've had this discussion with so many girls. The reality is that a lot of guys watch porn, but seriously it is not unreasonable for you to tell him to stop.

If it really bothers you, give him an ultimatum; either he stops, or your relationship is over. I guarantee he'll pick you (if he doesn't than seriously you don't want that kind of guy.)

If you're having sex with him, than yes its a problem. If you're not, than hes just trying to fulfill his horny male desires.

well first i must say i disagree with elise =]♥, not all guys need that. not all guys do that...just some do. it's a struggle we have...and it does hurt if your boyfriend does it...but no it's definitely not wrong of you to get mad or upset. my boyfriend does too, but he's trying to stop. and he's doing a really good job with that! and im sure that he does care about you...just because he does that does not mean he doesn't care about you...it's just something he struggles with it...if you really don't want him doing that then talk to him, and ask him if he'll try to stop. i think that if he really does care about you he will try!