A weird encounter with a stripper?

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Alright I just turned 21 recently and I had a late birthday outing with my cousins. Ok last Saturday they took me out to a strip club. I am quite the shy one and they wanted me to get a lap dance. So she comes and she asks me what my name is yada yada. I am natural quite the nervous one so you know she notices and keeps on asking why are you so nervous? why can't you look me in the eye? I start laughing but she is serious and she keeps on jerking my head out to meet her eyes with her hand. So she asks me a bunch of questions about my life and we talk back and forth. She also is offering me her drink (she wants me to drink achochol, because I am to uptight according to her)  At one point we just stop dancing all together and at one point she asks me have I ever been love??? She also states that me and you will never be anything later on in the conversation. (Like I thought their would) I also sensed she got jealous when I told her that I danced with someone before her. She never asked me for any money after we started talking. So the last thing she says is she wants me to come back to her once I have got a little alchocol in my system, before she has to go back to work. 

Me and my cousins go to the club (NOT FOR HER REASON THOUGH, WE PLANED TO GO there all along). I drink and get a little dizzy and I told me cousins about it and since that they know I am a 21 year old loser virgin they want me to go back their and try to get at her. Well I do and she finds me and then she takes me outside at her car( not in her car) and we talk somemore ( I am still reserved and caucious of her motives( I am just naturally parnoid). She tells me that she is not trying to take advantage of me. We go back in the club and she pays my retry fee with her own money. We go on a couch and she is laying up on me and I have my arm around her and we actually look like a couple. I think she wanted me to kiss her but I was still reservred even with a little alochol in me. Well she states that she has to go and she will see me if I had a chance. I didn't ask for her phone number. Well I wait around and I eventually see her but I walk past her to see if she says anything to me but she doesn't. I am to scared to walk up to her and ask her anything for somereason.Well I sit back down and I see her all over the place near ME but talking to other people people almost infront of me. But she doesn't look my way. So I am like **** it and me and my cousins roll out. 

Can anyone make sense of that sisuation?

Love♥Peace♥Happiness · Accepted Answer

Uhm...No way to much to read....Stripper though... yea.... ew

? · Answer

yea that's what strippers do kid. They make YOU think that they REALLY like YOU. "im not trying to take advantage"... "yada yada yada" They know men think with their units... and the shy ones are the best. That eye contact she was trying to get earlier is a tactic. Shes probably got kids and a man at home. Im not sure if you gave her any money.. but she wont hang out with you for too long if you don't give her any. I guarantee if you went in their again and some other guy was tossing dubs at her.. she would not even acknowledge your presence. Dont ever be a trick kid... womwn are everywhere! there are 5 Billion people on earth... Shes a stripper...and SHE DOESNT REALLY LIKE YOU

Lalu212 · Answer

She thinks of you as an innocent person. She asks if you've ever been in love, because if you haven't been in many relationships she would think that you would easily "fall in love" with her. She doesn't seem like she'd be a good partner. She's playing with you and will use you. And I agree with Victim of Yahoo Cultures and Groups, she is most likely a stripper on the side. Besides, are you sure you want a stripper as a girlfriend? Don't go back, not even if your cousins ask you to. Don't get in deeper.

neet · Answer

Well, if you never gave her any money and she payed for you to come in and for your drinks, she must have liked you. Strippers don't usually spend their money on guys at a strip club - it's usually the other way around. So if everything you said is true, and you never gave her any money, i'm positive she liked you. 

I don't know why she wanted you there while she was working unless she just didn't know how to ask you out. I'm pretty sure the reason she was talking to other people was because she was trying to make money and if she hung out with you all night she wouldn't make any. That's what they do. I'm not sure why she didn't just ask for your number, maybe she didn't know if you liked her, or maybe she was kind of shy too, and didn't know how to ask you out. I don't know but I do know that strippers don't spend money on guys unless they like them.

Anonymous · Answer

You are uptight and don't know how to approach girls and she's a stripper. The last thing you want is a girlfriend who's a stripper especially if you are a virgin. If you want to sleep with her that's one thing. She's a friggen stripper and she was making it obvious that she's a prostitute on the side. All you have to do is say can you suck my d**k and be ready to pay her.

Anonymous · Answer

I actually read it all. Simply put, she is trying to make you her costumer. She wants you to spand money on dances with her n is just trying to get yu comfortable bc its prolly makin her uncomfortable. SHe is used to guys that get dances being into it or really excited not so much reserved as you are yourself. 

Dont stress this situation. Like I said, she is trying to make you her customer. If you dont spend money on her or werent tippin her thats why she is no longer looking your way and talkin to other people.

Anonymous · Answer

k i just read the last paragraph cause  you wrote to much but i think you made it out ok you don't want to give your V up to a stripper! Come one Man!!

Anonymous · Answer

I can tell by your long assssss paragraphs you're a mark ready to get took by that stripper


Play the sidelines young man. She ain't no good

Anonymous · Answer

You should have taken advantage of such a wonderful opportunity.

Anonymous · Answer

NOOOOOOO

Too Long

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