What would you do if it was you?

I wouldnt feel anything, she obviously is not attracted to you or else she would have been dating you so get over it is all i can say.

If she knew you liked her, but did not choose you, that may mean she likes the other guy more. I would stay close friends with her, hang out a lot, and then you can see if you think she may have feelings for you.

Or you could just say, "hey. I know we have been friends for a long time, and I know I've mentioned before that I would like to go out with you. Do you have any of those kind of feelings about me? or should I just be happy with us just being friends?" Tell her you'd like her to be honest and that you do enjoy just being friends with her, if that's all that she wants.

i would feel very hurt too. but you know what? you know her better than any of those other saps out there she's dating. you've got one up on them. ever watch those romantic movies? the guy best friend ALWAYS ends up with the girl in the end. she'll realize how much she really likes you and how you've always been there for her. it will take time. i'm sorry. but if you want to do it right, just stay VERY good friends with her. she'll come around. believe me!

I would also feel betrayed, if i would have been in your shoes. what would i do? well, i would sit down and talk to her about it, i guess. tell her how you feel, and how friends usually tell each other things such as that. do you want to be with her? i guess so since you mentioned you told her how much you want to go out with her. well... i would try something to win her over. maybe like, flowers? a song? best of luck. :)

she was acting cautiously, since she knew you've always wanted to go out with her; and if she told you that she'd broken up with her bf, she knew that you'd seize the chance and start crossing over from friend zone to I want you zone, and then she'd have to say no and hurt you and then she'd get another boyfriend and hurt you double--so she was just preserving your friendship--quite a mature little lady she is...

If she knew you were interested, but choose to date someone else, then she only likes you as a friend. For the sake of maintaining your friendship, learn to accept that and don't push the issue of dating.

I wouldn't suggest telling her how much you want to go out with her if she isn't showing interest in you. that's just annoying. it'll make things awkward between the two of you.

she probably didn't tell you she got another bf because she knew it'd upset you..?

my best friend had feelings for her guy best friend for years and he would always have different girlfriends and what not. so not too long ago she messaged him saying how she really feels and asked how he felt towards her and he said he wants to be best friends and honestly, now my friend is completely over him and they are just best friends. so i think you should just say "hey, do you want to go out with me or not?" who knows, she could be trying to make you jealous :)

I would feel pretty damn cut man..

-hug-

but there is plenty more people out there for you, so try and just let it pass.. It's a horrible feeling but you'll just have to respect her decision (if you want..) and deal with it..

id feel sad but maybe she thinks of u like a friend lots of things can be going thru her mind