I don't know if i want my pregnant wife and stepdaughter in my life!!?

Comment ~ Loser

Advice ~ Stop bein a mam's boy. Grow up. Take an English and a Spelling class while you're in college. How about an Ethics class too.

Opinion ~ Your penis got you into this. Now you get to deal with it, for the rest of your life. You can dump her f you want, but you still have to support that baby and I hope she sues you for alimony and child support in the divorce.

Hands down if she has the baby take care of it send it money food or something, because if you didn't want a kid with this woman you shouldn't have one married her and two engaged in sex with her. You knew her past when you married her and accepted it then so you should still accept it now or get a divorce. However if you are mature enough and feel you can put her past behind you I would definatly treat her and her kid with love and respect. If you can not do that for her then you need to let her go but still take care of the baby if she has it. Most importantly you need to talk with her like an adult you are 22 there is no reason you should be hiding your marriage and thinking about ditching your wife.

ps make sure the kid is yours if she does have it and don't be a jerk about it.

uh... That really does suck that's why you should have kids after your done school cause it's a pain in the *** to go through that when you have to pay for diapers and **** while your on student loans finishing your studies for your pathway to a better life in the future. Just ask yourself these questions. What is more important to me? What will I get out from both situations? What will make me have a happier life to enjoy? What can I do to please me and my wife and soon to be kid?

a lot of people live unhappy lives over stuff like this but your life is what you make it.... I dont know if there's any going back for you but somewhere deep down I wish you luck in whatever decision you make. and that everyone has a past and has done wrong things at some point, you can try to forgive her for hers as you are fighting with some things that may be wrong... you have no right to judge her

first off.... ur a loser! u knew about her daughter and her past before u got her pregnant. GROW UP and stop caring so much about what ur parents think and think for urself. get a job and support ur soon to be child. thank god ive never had to deal with a prick like u! this is ur WIFE!!!!!!! dont take it out on her cause ur a jealous idiot

are you sure the child is yours and it's the best if you tell your parents situation and do you really love her or is it just for looks if her being hot is the only thing I say go seperate ways and you still got to support your kids or you can try to take care of them yourself and check if she's cheating on you and if you can cope with the past you can try to live happily or you can try to take custody of your kid if you dont wont your child their and please tell your family otherwise you will build guilt

honey, you may not want this life and you can run away from it, but that will not solve your problems. you were man enough to marry this girl and get her pregnant, now you ahve to be man enough to face the consequences. I am not saying you have to be with her, but you do NEED to be in her life. otherwise your no better than her first hubby. yes, youve got your whole life ahead of you and sounds like a great career, and this wont stop that from happening, it just makes things a little more difficult. listen, I am currently 22 yrs old. my hubby is 23. I got pregnant when I was 17 yrs old! he was 18. Now i was terrified! I too was being supported by my parents, whome i was terrfied of, my dad is a very religous man and firmly believes in no sex before marriage. so imagine how scared i was when I had to tell him I (his 17 yr old daughter) was pregnant. but I did, and I thought he was going to kill me, but he didnt. I stayed in school, and graduated. I didnt get my GED or go to school online to hide from everyone, I went to a normal public school, until I went into labor, was out for 6 weeks after that and went back to school and got my high school diploma. my son was at my graduation. my hubby was 18 and it was very hard on him also. you do have to grow up alot, but having a child does not mean your life is over, even if you dont want to be with the mother. if you decide to stay in touch with her whether your 'together' or not, once she has this baby then your life will begin. you dont know TRUE love until you have a child. you can still go out and have a good time and work on bettering your life it just amy take a little longer and going out, you wont be able to do as often, but you can do it. We still go out and are STILL able to be reg 22 and 23 yr olds. we drink and party and act crazy. we just cant do it as often. your parents may be upset with you but they will get over it. my dad didnt talk to me for 2 months (no lie). but its all worth it. and the stepdaughter, she dont have to call you 'dad' and dont make her do that. but you have an obligation to this girl because you chose to marry her mom. if you and your wife split then you really dont have to worry about it. but step kids arent bad. you have to just quit being self absorbed and selfish. you never know, if you open up, you may actually love her as if she were your own... sorry I wrote so much but I just dont want to see someone make a bad mistake in their life. if you deny this child and refuse relationship with it, think... one day you will get a call, there will be a voice on the other line, and out will come the question.. "why didnt you love me? why didnt you care enough to stay in my life? mom says I look just like you.. why didnt you care enough to call? why werent you there for me when I needed you? was your career more important than me? why did you care about other poepls opinions more than me? WHY?" will you be able to answer these questions with good reasonability?

first of all you are being a big jerk to marry her, knock her up and then leave. you knew what you were getting when you said i do now you need to deal with it. tell your parents...they are gonna find out eventually anyway (if you treated me the way you are treating her i'd call your parents myself). its time to step up and be the man you were when you were boinkin' her.

go with your heart, or maybe you could tell her the things that you are not happy about and try to work them out, but all i am going to say is go with your heart