Boyfriend is acting distant,help!?

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months.He recently came home from a month long trip and before he left,things were great.In fact the night before he left,he said he loved me.Ever since he came home,he's been more and more distant and doesn't call and text me as much as he used to.He also seems to be a bit more moody and he's hard to read at times.

He just came home Friday and when i suggested coming to my volleyball game,he declined and said he was burned out on that and didn't want to come. You would think he'd want to see me asap after not seeing me for a month,but he seems to want to take his time. The only thing that makes me rethink things is that he still wants to come over to my house for the first time,but doesn't seem to want to make solid plans.

Another thing I've noticed is that one minute he will be just like the guy I used to know,complimenting me and just having long drawn out conversations.Then all of a sudden he changes gears telling me things I really don't want to know about,including him rating girls at the airport and going to the movies with his female friends more then he sees me!

anonymous · Accepted Answer

gee....this is pretty strange, huh?

well maybe just ask him, just be all like "hey is something wrong? is there something u want to tell me?"

and if he wont call or text, then be forward and text him first or call him, or even just drop by his house for a quick hello.

and maybe get him more invloved in ur life, ask him to have dinner with u or go somewhere fun, or even as far as meeting ur family. me and my girlfriend's family are pretty close, we always go out to dinner together and we just went to six-flags this summer

most importantly do not give up faith in your relationship
be positive and confident
and pray, prayer always works.

just good luck, and God bless you two :)

? · Answer

Maybe he's just trying to get used to the way things are at home again. It's hard after being away from home for a period of time.

Dee · Answer

He's not interested in you anymore, it's pretty clear.  He wants to dumb you.  If he was into you, he would want to see you immediately; the volleyball this is a BS excuse, and him rating other girls all of a sudden is a hint that he's not into you anymore.  I'm so sorry!

Anonymous · Answer

Ahh you are not alone mine is 43yo men and still does that, the way to get out of this to act the same towards him. I watch cat fights on youtube how they scream plus, every time hi Meeaow i respond with Fffffffffuu. Its his games

Lexxi · Answer

hes being a self centered jerk and you dont deserve that. forget him, even though he said he loved you doesnt mean  its how he feels now, guys can move on very quickly and looks like yours has. so find someone that treats you right and doesnt talk about other chicks infront of you

lauren · Answer

were you talking to him when e was gone? like texting or calling him?
he probably found someone when he left on his trip, but knows he can never be with her.
so he is bummed because he can't see that girl that he met

filmfanatic · Answer

the best advice to give you is to 
1. pray or meditate about it
2. sit him down and talk it through
3. decide if a.is he worth it? b. will this pass?
4. make sure you do what #2 says...
thats all i can give...
i hope this helps!

Brittany.? · Answer

that sucks sorry to say but he might wanna break up but doesnt wanna hurt you and just wants to be good friends

Mike · Answer

sounds to me like your just a booty call and hes probly found someone else. sorry

Anonymous · Answer

maybe spending time away from you made him realize he doesn't like you that much... sorry :(

but you should talk to him, not be asking us

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