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I think i hate him!!!!?
My bfz havin $ problems & he says i'm addin 2 them bcuz he buys me food and clothes.shoes sumtimes. (the only thing i ask 4 is food, he offers the other stuff). I got a p/t job but its 8hrs a wk. I have an interview 4 a f/t job so I decided not 2 do da p/t. hez mad bcuz he thinks its not guaranteed, but the phone interview went well. I feel i always have to prove myself 2 him & when i make decisions he doesnt like im afraid 2 tell him cuz I dont wanna disappoint him. Wat should I do? I'm thinkin about breaking up.
I do pay my own bills, he OFFERS to buy me things. I'm semi-independent. I'm working on that so there you go Used88!!!
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
He is making you feel guilty it seems about the $ thing.
He is really seeming to bring you down because of how you don't want to tell him things that he would not like. And the Guilt thing.
You shouldn't be afraid to make decisions or to tell people about them. And you not being able to tell him things like that...that says somethings bad about him.
And the fact that you feel you have to prove yourself to him...You should never feel like you have to prove yourself to anyone. If you feel that way...about anyone...they are making themself seem suppirior and in any case that is not the way a boyfriend or a girlfriend should act or be towards their boyfriend or girlfriend.
He's saying you add to his $$$ problems....well if you break up with him....You wouldn't add to his $$$ problems anymore. AND if you break up with him....You wouldn't have to worry about him approving of your decisions.
Good luck! And I hope I helped! =D
- 1 decade ago
Be an independent woman & take care of yourself. Pay your own bills, buy your own clothes & your own food. You should've kept the part time job until you found out for sure that you got the full time job. If you don't get it now, he's stuck taking care of you even more.
Pathetic..
