Why do some women choose losers?

WHY?....because loser hang out with losers. Look at the bums on the block. Do you see any winners hanging out with'em.

Winner hang out with winners, and losers hang out with losers.

Wellll. This is embarassing, I married that video-game playing pot head, and dated my share of losers leading up to that. Even my current bf isn't too great on paper.

Didn't feel good enough to do better. Sad but true. I'm guessing that's what it is in most cases, that a girl has low self-esteem, picks a guy who makes her feel 'loved' in the beginning, and then sticks around hoping he'll change, hanging on to memories of better times.

Hm! I sniff a breakup coming on.

I don’t know. Is there any guy that is not considered a loser? Most of them somehow act like a loser to me. Being a loser is not only being a lazy but also being a jerk such as treating people badly, a snob man can be a loser, a self-centered man can also be a loser and maybe some woman can be attracted to that.

When you find the answer, please let me know.

Some women, like the question I answered last night, are so attracted to these 'bad boys'. Most of these are lazy, jobless deadbeat men who use or sell drugs. Then after the girl gets pregnant and decides to have his child, the first question she'll ask is "how do i get sole custody because my child's father is...a lazy, jobless deadbeat who uses/sells drugs.

Unfortunately, the women who make these poor decisions aren't usually the ones who suffer. It's the innocent kids.

You think THAT'S bad? I'm going to scream if I see one more question from a girl between 12-14, who says she's found her soul mate and is madly in love and that they're meant to be forever. Then, she'll give a blow-by-blow account of what he did, that she interprets as love. One fine example: "I texted him 15 times in 10 minutes & he hasn't texted back, but I know he loves me, & we're meant to be together forever, & my bff told me that his brother was online on Facebook, & I texted him again, but he wore his green shirt today, because he's in love with me, but he didn't stop by my work, & is he mad at me, or do you think he's just stressin', because my cousin's friend's uncle's brother said that he liked me, but he texting some other girl & I think it's true love, but do you think he's ignoring me because he really likes me?".

Desperation and just some kind of companionship. But mainly not knowing that person before they get to involved and the damage has already been done.

Who wants headaches? You are going to need a whole bunch of Tylenol pills.

b/c womens blive every body can change even if that person wouldnt think so

is your guy a winner?