Seeking Top Recommended OB/GYN Hampton Roads, VA?

I am 27 and planning my first pregnancy with my husband. I am looking for an incredible OB/GYN to care for me during my prenatal care delivery and postnatal care. I had a positive test a month ago and went to "Riverside Women's Healthcare" in Newport News, VA to confirm pregnancy. They sounded wonderful over the phone. When my test came up negative they shuffled me out the door without answering any of my questions about medications I should stop taking while trying to conceive. I felt very rejected. I wasn't pregnant so "Out the door!"

I also spoke to a lady at the "Center for Women's Health" in Newport News, VA. They told me to call when I'm pregnant and they will schedule my 8-12 week ultrasound!? What about foods to avoid, what medications I should stop taking or alternative meds and prenatal vitamins!?

I'm looking for someone that, even though they deliver children all day every day, will respect the fact that I have questions and that I'm nervous and this is my first time.

I'm looking for someone who will take the time to answer my questions. If someone has had a wonderful experience with one of the doctors at one of the above mentioned clinics or have a recommendation for a place that they have had a wonderful experience, please, please, please let me know!

I would be greatly appreciative. I am a little stressed and don't know what other research to do or who else to ask. Thank you again!!