Thanks everyone for your replies over the months - Hope is retiring to think things over re husband.?

I wish you nothing but luck. I hope everything is going to be better for you. I also had a good laugh when I read your new icon-image wording " Hope Has A Rubbish Husband". I hope you find a good man.

YA is brilliant for some things but when dealing with affairs of the heart is can be confusing like having twenty people all telling you to do different things.

You can only take advise from a few as some answers will conflict and even oppose others, it's for you to decide who you listen to and who makes the most sense.

Taking a step back is a good thing, clear your head, sort your life and come back fitter and stronger with experience then to help others going through the same thing.

I'm sorry having tough time with your marriage, it can get unhappy and depressed when the attention is not on you and your marriage.

make pro and con list on benefits of staying in your marriage and which ever out weights the other, go with that choice as if do not sort out your marriage now, be stuck in rut and will always remain unhappy, depressed and feeling so low in your self.

do come back as no doubt your questions be missed, and i wish all the luck in the world, God Bless x

Hey Don't stop YA. Just deal with rubbish husband and get a new life where YA is a little bit of fun in between a much nicer life.

I agree with obzi but really in this situation from all the question you posted, if its all true then its best you dump your rubbish husband and never look back. its ironic but hed think more of you if you left him,. good luck x

Take with you all the good advise we gave you. Goodness, you have brought tears to my face and I do not even know who you are, but still, you are one of us regardless.

Don't take life so seriously, you are not getting out of it alive anyway. A word of wisdom. Good luck

You go girl! perhaps a fresh perspective and a change of scenery are just what the doctor ordered. God Bless you1 And we all will keep you in our prayers. be sure to let us know how it works for you!!!:-)

aw hope xxx your so sweet we will miss you xx i hope you find your path

and remember when someone betrays you its not your fault xxxx

Hope go on a vacation you need it, lots of love--Candy

Be strong and be there for you.