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My dad just left, Im worried.?

Heres the deal:

My mom has back problems, kidney problems, And any other problems, and she drugged up on pain medicine most of the time. Plus, My dad has bipolar disorder and he got amazingly depressed a few days ago, so did my mom.

Like a few hours ago, my dad left the house and all I heard was his tires squealing away, He drives at like 100 mph when hes pissed. My mom has jsut been sitting in her room and crying.

My dad wouldn't tell anybody he loved them before he left. but he IMed me from his phone about an hours ago to check on my sister and me and my mom. He said he was then going to bed and said goodbye. hes never left for a full night before, usually a couple of hours. he also said "Im sorry it came to this".

Does this mean hes staying gone? And what could have caused this? he usually takes medicine, but im afraid he and my mom are having marrige problems. What do you suggest to help me deal with this?

My mom can't work, and we're usless without him. Please, give advice. :(

P.s. As I finished this, My dad came home to get to get some stuff and take it with him.

Update:

I cry about my mom all the time, Thats pretty harsh.

Update 2:

my dad came home to spend the night. Now, My mom says if my dad is staying, shes leaving.

neither of my parents want to stay with me and my sister.

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  • JETERS
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Talk to your dad and tell him that you love him a lot show him that you need him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to call your dad or send him a message to his phone and tell him how much you,your sister, and your mom need him. Tell him how much all of you guys love him. And tell him to come back and explain why hes leaving. Ask him if this is just for a short period of time or if its a life time deal. You have a reason to be worried,scared,sad. I understand you. You just need to talk to your dad about all of this and ask him why hes doing this. And comfort your mom and try calming her down. I also will pray for your mom and her back,kidney and all her other "problems". I'm sorry about this! and I hope he comes back and you guys can continue with your family life. God bless.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Well, I feel you already know the reality right here. It does sound like he's dishonest. At the age of thirteen you'll cook dinner in your self. I did. Cook anything handy! Your mother is performing like not anything is incorrect, due to the fact that that is what mothers do. They act like that so you do not get harassed. She's a well mother for doing that. I feel you or one in all your siblings will have to speak on your dad. Tell him the way you think. Tell him to go away your mother due to the fact that he is simplest hurting her by way of doing what he is doing. If they separate It'll be difficult to start with then either one of your father and mother will likely be soooo a lot happier. Parents consistently desire to stick in combination for the youngsters sake. You will have to permit him realize your pleased with them doing what makes them joyful. You may not endure from it. My father and mother cut up up while I used to be approximately your age and I feel it used to be the exceptional factor for me, I eventually noticed them joyful... and with folks they Really cherished. I are aware of it's difficult to take hold of, however a few instances folks don't seem to be intended to be in combination! Good Luck!!!

  • Jim M
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It sounds cliche but what about marriage counseling. Perhaps you could call some numbers in the phone books and check rates or make an appointment.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hey I hope your MOM dies! hehe:)

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