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Men, please answer why do you do this?
Why do you take a girl out have a great time with her, make your move and when she doesn't allow you to go any further than a kiss put her in the friend zone via text message? I've been on three dates in the past month, all of which ended this same way.
P.S. I am not a little kid I am a 24 year old woman.
I don't put out on a first date. There are things called morals, which I happen to have.
15 Answers
- AllenLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Let me ask you this do you just want to give it up? I knew a girl that would tell everybody she wouldn't do it till married, and if she was out into the friends category so what. So if a guy won't continue to date you unless you go down on him then the hell with him, don't give him a second chance.
- 1 decade ago
Some, men are just looking to score, and if they fail at date one they pretty much judge that it's not worth there effort to try a date 2
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Ive been in the same situaton but its good that you dont put out. I think if they dont call you at least a couple days a week you should ignore them completely there are better men out there.
- 1 decade ago
i wouldnt let it bother you, i think a woman with morals is a good thing. not all guys are looking for sex right off the bat. you will find a guy that respects your boundaries. i respect that a lot in a woman. good luck to you.
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- obitdude2Lv 71 decade ago
We all don't do that. I'd probably put you in the "friend zone" anyway, no matter if we had a great time or not, even if we slept together doesn't automatically make you more than a friend. One date does not a girlfriend make! Get it? Tell me please, what is it you want them to do?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Its a well known fact that we have to have 2nd base on the first date. Give it up and keep a man, or don't and have fun being the only single 50 year old at your high school reunion.
- 1 decade ago
I've never done that but, I think maybe if you want to go out with them again you should ask them out
- Anonymous1 decade ago
When You Find The Right Guy .. He Won't Do That To You
- 1 decade ago
Not a man so can't answer for them!! All I will say though is "Well Done You!!! Keep your morals!!!"
- zmanLv 41 decade ago
it sounds like those men want something more just a kiss from you. sex maybe. if you can't satisfy their desires they just give up on you. those men they didn't hang out with you because they like you or anything. if they really like you, they should respect what you want and keep liking you.
wanna answer mine?