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How can I get that feeling back?

Lately i've been upset wit my bf. He's goin thru stuff & so have I & its lyk hes focused only on himself. How should I react to him being self-centered? We jus found out we're was pregnant so dat gonna b more stress. Everythin he does annoys me & turns me off. How can I get those lovey dovey feelins bac? ( Im not worry about him being a good father.. He's so responsible & awesome

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Maybe he is feeling pressure because he must accept the responsibility of being a Dad. I do not know your economic situation but having a baby will add stress to that for sure. Possibly much of his focusing on himself has to do with accepting this about his life. Maybe he was not ready for it and is trying to deal with it. I think your affirmation of him being a good father and also that you feel he is awesome should be expressed to him.

    In relationships allowing each other to be who they are is the best gift you can give someone. I would suggest you try and understand him and maybe talk it through regarding your feelings. He may just listen and understand and it will also help both of you cope with this new situation with regard to starting a family.

    You know you get what you put into a relationship. If you show him your love and that you appreciate him, he will respond I think. Much of what we do in a relationship has to be mutual. There is give and take and maybe right now you must give. I know you are facing your own feelings about being pregnant and how this will affect your life so in this regard he will have to give to you. You just need to express your feelings to him in a loving way. I think you will see this approach is the best.

    Hope all goes well with you and hopefully you can get your feelings back.

    Source(s): Life experience. I am 63 and have learned a few things.
  • lina
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    self-centered means he's not gonna be a good father.......you should focus on you and your baby good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Try being nice to him and spending time together..

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