I'm totally torn, what do I do?

Seriously Jen;

I agree with the gentlemen that said "history repeats itself". Please, think this over...if he said something so hurtful to your friend like he wishes she would die, why would you want to date a person like that? And then, when a person feels comfortable with talking about your family, that is like a no no! I think you need to consider your worth and know that you can find someone who respects you and loves you and your family and friends. Don't compromise for a guy like that...ever! Write a list of what you want in a man, and if he does not meet atleast 90% of what you want, don't do it, because if you are looking forward to a long term/forever type deal, you wont find it in a person you are not fully happy with. I encourage you to stick to your guns and forget that guy. Let him grow up and experience some things in life so that he can even out his bad attitude. He may admit now that he screwed up, but it is funny how well men can hide things under cover until you are stuck with them and then they let the real them that never changed back out. I would hate to hear you in an abusive (verbal or physical or emotional) relationship.

Lastly, I always count on my friends to give me good advice, and if the girl is your close friend, dont ignore her feelings. She is coming from a more objective stand point than you because she does not love him,and sometimes as females when we like someone we come from a subjective standpoint which is not always good.Trust your girl! God bless

My honest opinion is if you only dated him for 2 weeks, then don't bother. If it was only 2 weeks before this happened, then just imagine how it's gonna be if you guys are together for the long term.

You don't wanna be with someone who could potentially not like your family, that's really difficult. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and him and my family don't get along at all, I hate it. Plus trust me, your best friend is way more important than some guy. If he was already disrespectful to her, then that probably won't change. I've had good friends of mine stop talking to me because of my boyfriend, and that hurts. You don't want to take the risk that him and your best friend won't get along and the possibility of her not wanting to be friends anymore. Especially over a guy you didn't date for that long.

Stop now before you're really invested and love him. Find someone who treats you well, and who doesn't do something to cause a break up 2 weeks in.

I hope this was helpful.

Yes it's. But I do not believe this has something to do along with your hymen. You simply get used to it after a pair occasions. The equal occurred for me however I did not tear my hymen till years later whilst my boyfriend fingered me. I realize it tore then and now not earlier than, cuz I bled a bit of.

There is a very old saying, "History repeats itself."

If you go back to him, you will very likely be telling us some version of this story again and again.