I cheated on my gf with my ex. We were tlking about marrige and now she wants me out of her life for good.?

If you have to come on here and ask us about YOUR girlfriend, whom you CLAIM you love (yet you cheat on her =\...) then you obviously dont' know enough about her to even be in a relationship with her.

Grow up...you don't deserve to have a girlfriend if you're so immature and desperate that you have to cheat.

You won't have a prayer getting your gf back until you figure out why you felt the need to cheat on her with your ex. Also, why you told her that you cheated (if you're the one that told).

Once you are honest with yourself about what you did, you may realize that you are not emotionally ready for another relationship because you are not truly over your ex yet.

Instead of trying to get your gf back, you need to seriously take the time to work on yourself and get over your ex once and for all.

Maybe to you it was just sex, or an attempt to get closure on the old relationship, but to your gf and any woman, it is the purest form of betrayal that a man can do. The one thing that makes a couple special is that they are the only ones having sex with each other. You put your gf in the same boat as your ex, and took away what made her feel special and loved by you.

HOW would you undo that? That is the question! First, work on your issues, and hope that you can prove to your gf that you will never, ever, ever do that again. That she deserves better, and do a whole lot of kissing up, buying presents, whatever it takes to convince her that it was the worst mistake of your life, and certainly not worth losing her for.

Well not to point out the obvious, but you really shouldn't have cheated on her... especially with an ex.

You should be very honest with her. Tell her that you really messed up, it might help to tell her why you did what you did. Then tell her how much she truly means to you, and how desperate you are to make things right again. Ask her if she would consider forgiving you. Include personal things that happened, like inside jokes that only you and her understand, re-tell stories that you might have told her earlier on in the relationship. Anything to make her think back to when things were happier in the relationship.

***If you see (in body language, expression, or even by what she says) that the topic, memory, ect that you are talking about is going in a bad emotional direction, try to get off that topic and move onto something more neutral or positive.

Serves you right. What did you think was going to happen? Ask yourself if you deserve your girlfriend. Or if your girlfriend deserves you. Then, you'll find the way to get her back. Blaming anyone but yourself or making excuses about why it happened other than your own stupidity and immaturity isn't going to win any points. If she does decide to give you another chance, you will have to be prepared for her to yell at you, rage at you, cry over you and question you for a long long time. She needs to be able to build trust again, so she is going to have to know everything. If you aren't prepared to subject yourself to all of this, then you should walk away now. There is no time limit for you to be punished, you will be punished until she feels better about your relationship. For now, tell her that you love her and want to talk to her about it. That you are fully committed (if you are) to making it work and that you are willing to give her some time to process everything but that you want to talk to her in a few days. How did she find out? Did a friend tell her? Did the ex tell her? Or did you feel so guilty that you manned up and told her yourself? Best not to lie anymore, it's not going to get her back.

Why is it that when men cheat that they get regretful AFTER the fact? The better question is, is this a PREVENTABLE mistake? What could you possibly do or say to convince the one you cheated on whom you say you can't live without that this won't happen again? As I have been on the "receiving end" of this behavior, I don't have an answer, but I do wish you (and your ex-girlfriend) well.

well dont give up. if you really like her then do whatever it takes to get her back n show her you have feelings for her. and dont ever cheat on her again. And you dont want a manual from some random people on the web do u!!?? of course no!! be creative and original!! but whatever you do dont give up! Fight for yo love Be a man and go to where she lives! write a song, or say sorry a billion times, say all the things you appreciate she does, and how much you love her and why. your mind is the best tool of love youve got! but if u say it from the heart and mean it then its even more powerful! GET OFF THE COMPUTER ALREADY AND GO GET HER! YOU CAN DO IT!

Maybe it's your ex you love! i mean if you went back an that even when u had a girlfriend who you say you love so much..Maybe it was a mistake and your really sorry but everything happens for a reason, whats done is done and time makes things better

I slept with my ex last night..i still love him =( BUT both us are single as far as i know your not my ex are you!? =o

hey dude that's really tough, you said you were talking about the marriage right? so about this approach your GF (not your Ex) then propose to her right away to show that you really love her or perhaps you give her something like a surprise gift attach it with a letter of forgiveness and if all these doesn't work THEN IS THE LAST THING THAT YOU HAVE TO DO

CONFRONT HER THEN HUG HER tight (make sure you add some crying and stuff like that) make her understand that you were wrong. hope it helps

You messed up.

In order to get her back you have get her to trust you again. That means she can invade your space - email, snail mail, blackberry, everything just to prove to her you can be a man and can be trusted. This will take a long time and you will have to be very patient because you are the one who brought this on yourself.

If you can convince her to have you in her life - that's it - no more messing around with anyone but her.

Good luck

You can't and you can't un-do this! I don't think you cheat on people that you are in love with, I really don't. You need to look at this. If you are really happy with her and you cheat on her, she knows that you will cheat again, why wouldn't you? She is done with you because she will always know you slept with your ex. If she took you back,you would continue to treat her bad.