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whats a good way to say "i dont wanna go on a second date with you"?

I have a date tomorrow, which should be fun. he's a pilot so he's taking me flying. I hung out with him and some friends at a party tonight and i was trying really hard to be open minded but i just am not feeling it. he kinda annoys me. i can see him being a good friend but really nothing more. and he knows that i feel this way and asked if he could at least take me out on a date and i said yes. (just to give him a shot) but what is a gentle way to say "well, i tried it; still don't like it."?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Two ways you can handle it. One is you just tell him 'I dont want to see you again' if he asks to see you again. The other is to tell him you saw him as a 'Brother' and nothing more. Either way he will get the jist. If not he will keep trying. All men love the chase and are a tad stupid, so you must be audacious.

  • 1 decade ago

    You are being too kind. Don't let him know what you like, where you live and don't get into his conversation for long. That way he won't have a chance. But I heard that men don't want friends, unless you don't meet him until a few years later. So you can only be cruel.

  • 1 decade ago

    Whats a good way to say "i dont wanna go on a second date with you"?

    You just said it. He'll get over it.

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    1 decade ago

    Just tell him you only see him as a friend and don't let him talk you into any more dates.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just say "I had a lot of fun with u, but the truth is, I'm also seeing this other guy, and we're getting kinda serious, so I don't think we can hang out anymore." Then...avoid him like the plague!

  • 1 decade ago

    Stop talking to them lol

  • 1 decade ago

    First answer. be straight and honest, no mind games.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him that uv been thinkin and u feel ure not ready

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