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Good lord, what happened?
so, last week, the day before school started me and one of my really good guy friends were just texting and stuff for hours...we are like really close and would talk all the time...so at school the next few days we went on like we did last year...talking and stuff in the halls hugging and junk...friend stuff...but on saturday i was at my friends house and he was at his and one of his friends called me and told me he liked me.
i thought they were kidding because just a few days before he told me he didnt like anyone. so i just brushed it off.
but at school the next week (aka this week) he just blew me off...i would say hi and he would say hi back but it wasnt the same...we used to talk all the time until this week...i dont know what happened?
i really miss talking to him...did i do something wrong...or was it all about him "liking me"?
what should i do?
sorry if this is confusing and that its kinda long
but please help :)
3 Answers
- LindsLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
The only thing you did wrong, was be you (meaning nothing). He is embarassed because his friend told you that he likes you. He probably told it to him in confidence maybe thinking about telling you but not having the nerve to. What if you don't like him back in the same way.
And it's hard for him to act normal around you b/c you know how he feels now. So he is second guessing himself. What if you don't like him, and you aren't comfortable talking to him like you used to, or hugging him or anything like that.
He's distancing himself b/c he might also feel like an idiot and thinks that him liking you will affect your friendship with him.
Maybe if you could talk to him about it-without embarassing him more or anything like that. Get it out in the open.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well... I can only think of a few explanations. It could have been your reaction when you found out since you were told over the phone. Or maybe he doesn't think that you feel the same way and he is now unsure of whether or not you still want to talk to him.
Other than that, I don't really know, but whatever happens, it will get better.
Wanna see if you can help me?
- Young PilgrimLv 41 decade ago
He is embarassed that you know he likes you- he thinks for sure you beleive his friend, so he feels akward around you.
If you don't beleive he likes you and you think its just a joke, make sure he KNOWS that! Laugh with him, say "What a dumb joke your friend pulled, huh?"
But if you think he does like you and you like him back, make SURE he knows how you feel
It will return to normal, I promise.
~julia
