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Does dreams mean anything? My husband often have dreams of having sex with other women.?

Today he told me that he had a dream that our marriage didn't work out. In his dream, he tried to call to reconcile but I didn't pick up so he went and had sex with another woman. Now, what does it tell you when a man or woman seek for sexual pleasures (almost) immediately after they see their marriage is over? I know it's just a dream, but I find it very hurtful. What do you guys think?

Update:

I asked if he would actually do that, his response was "you never know..that's why we should alway be together"

I'm worried.

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    If he's dreaming about this often, then he's thinking about it all the time, and maybe doing it. I work a lot of long hard hours, and I think about work a lot, so I even have dreams about it once a week or so. If you were stressed out about not being able to pay your rent, you may have a dream you are homeless. Sometimes dream mean nothing. If it was a one time thing, then no big deal. But if this happens often an he feels the need to tell you for some stupid reason, he's really trying to tell you he's having thoughts about an affair. Seems strange.

  • 1 decade ago

    If it was just the dream, i would say it doesn't mean much. Who hasn't had some weird dream that didn't make any sense? The telling part is why would he tell you in such detail about a dream like that? It's not like you would have ever known. To me it sounds like a call for attention, to get you a little worked up and bothered. So that you can tell him how much you want him. I think you're right to feel hurt....weather he was trying to get attention or tell you something else, he needs to be more mature than hiding it under the confusing fog of some dream.

  • 1 decade ago

    remember this is just a dream, he told you for a reason,he wants you to open the subject ,maybe he is feeling something have a good talk with him,assuming that he doesnt love you or he is cheating or whatever is what breaks up marriages,if you dont talk with him he may get angry ,figure oh well she thinks im doin whatever,so i might as well .seriously talk with him.

    Source(s): married 13 years with 4 children
  • 1 decade ago

    It's hurtful my husband has told me the samething without the marriage part being over. I am not sure if it means anything but hurts regardless

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Thats a messed up thing to say. If I had a dream like that I'd keep it to myself. Some people just dont know what to say. Anyway, it doesnt mean anything. It's a dream, but I'd watch him to be careful.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think every guy has dreams of another woman, at some point. No matter who they are sleeping with.

  • 1 decade ago

    first of all, any man who tells his wife/gf about a sexy dream he had about another woman is an idiot. you can't control your dreams, and what could he POSSIBLY gain from telling you about it? he's trying to make you jealous, and apparently, it worked. you need to get rid of this loser, it's obvious he doesn't respect or love you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It was a dream.

    You can judge him for it and permanently close off this avenue of intimacy with your husband or accept it and reassure him that is never going to happen.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think he's loosing the excitement in the bedroom, if you spice things up then trust me he'll stop having those dreams

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow i wonder why he told you that

    that is really messed up

    i think he is letting you knwo that if you guys break up that is what he is going to do

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