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this is a very interesting but hard question to answer.only really mature guys and girls) sex question?
i know this guy and he calls and text me almost everyday and we talk for hours we have great connection.( we both are not talking on the phone for hours type of person). we talk about everything and anything. he is not a virgin and is a very perverted person (sadly).i am a virgin ( saving myself for marriage ) i talk about sex sometime. when he talk about sex i feel really uncomfortable. a couple of days ago i was talking to him and i told him a story and then all of a sudden he tells me that he first use to think that my innocents was cute now it is just too much or not cute anymore. i talk about sex but not as much as he does. and then he told me that i kill all/any of us going out. so i about after about 1:30 hours. we hang up cuz he didn't want to talk and neither was i. i feel really bad what should i do ? how can i be more open ? should i even be more open ? please read and give me a lot of advice.we normally talk for more then 2;30 hours. should i give him a couple of days and then text him ? sorry for the bad grammar
17 Answers
- 1 decade ago
He wants in, plain and simple. He may or may not be a virgin and you will not know. Guys only talk on the phone for 2 hours if they are trying to get laid, cold hard truth. Ask anyone in a relationship how long their conversations used to last and how long they talk now. Pre sex vs Post sex.
Source(s): Experience - 1 decade ago
I commend you on saving yourself for marriage, I myself wish I would have waited. I am not sure what your conversations on sex are about, wether it be phone sex or just the topic in general. If talking about it with him makes you uncomfortable then you need to tell him even if it ruins your chances of going out with him. A man that is worth the wait is guy who is willing to wait. And if he can't handle that than he is not the right guy for you. Hope I helped. Good luck, stay strong, and God bless.
- faithLv 41 decade ago
The guy is a creep! He is only interested in having sex with you. He does not respect your desire to remain a virgin until you are married. I would not contact him again and if he contacts you ignore the call. If he doesn't respect your beliefs then he does not have respect for you. He was trying to reel you in. Some guys see virgins as challenges and it is obvious that this is the case with this guy. Forget him, you deserve someone who will respect you and what you want.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
honey, if the boy is going to be perverted and making talking about sex the only thing thats really important he is not worth u stressing over. You have enough self respect to save your self and take sex seriously so find someone who will take you seriously and not minipulate you to get what they want. That unfortantley is most teenage boys but you will find one eventuly that isnt like that
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- roscoedeadbeatLv 71 decade ago
he wants to have sex
you don't want to have sex
Are you willing to compromise your beliefs and your lifestyle choice to make him happy?
If you will abandon your beliefs, then tell him you are willing to have sex now.
If your beliefs are more important that making him happy for a few minutes, then tell him that you don't want what he wants, and you should each go your own way. Tell him you will get back in touch if you change your mind.
Then do not text him any more.
It will be tough, you will miss him, BUT you will ultimately be happier, and keep your self-respect.
- 1 decade ago
He is trying to make you feel bad for not wanting to have sex. Don't let him! Its fun to joke around and be flirty but he's actually starting to take things too far. If he doesn't want to talk because you are saving yourself then let him go.
- 1 decade ago
If you're serious about not having sex until marriage, then tell him that, and if he says he can't see the two of you together, then talk about defining what the relationship between the two is.
- ErinLv 71 decade ago
Just let this guy go if he wants to disappear on stop chatting with you. He just wants sex. And because you don't, he wants to make you feel guilty about it so you'll change your mind. I guarantee if you did change your mind and had sex with him, you'd never hear from him again, because he'd have gotten what he was after all along.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
no it wasnt bad grammarm
& is this guy your boyfriend of something?
for many people its hard to lose friends
but i dont think hes a keeper, sorry
give him 3 days, if he texts you or ims you, just ignore it
dont even read the texts
then 3 days later you'll see if he chases after you
or just leaves it
be hard to get
& dont take what he says seriously..
thats one guy out of the entire world, he has one say
& prob waht he says is wrong
in three days...he'll know what he is missing
- looking1964Lv 61 decade ago
He is just a perverted person and has no concern for how you feel.You need to tell him how you feel and if he still feels this way find some one else.