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i have a six months old daughter and i am pregnant again?

problem is i have two daughters and i need a son so i thought i should wait for two years before conceiving. this one came as a surprise i don't even know when i had my ovulation because the cycle was irregular. i cant even remember when i had the sex that produced the pregnancy. what if its another girl. what would you do if u were me. i have considered an abortion but my husband says no.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Abortion is not the answer-you will always regret it. As much as it would be nice that this baby is a son-(I hope it is) Please accept this baby if it is another daughter. Do not show resentment-love her-I know everything will turn out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Firstly - Why do you NEED a son? That is such an old fashioned idea! You have two daughters so should not really be considering having any more children at all. The world is over populated and can only just sustain the population it has. To have two children - one to replace you and one to replace your husband on your deaths is reasonable - but to have more is irresponsible. With the medical advances in infant care there is no longer a need to have a large family in the hope that an infant will survive to adulthood.

    Second - Are you sure you are pregnant? - You say you can't remember when you had 'the sex that produced the pregnancy' - is that because you are unable to abstain from sex - or because you haven't had sex since your last pregnancy ended? If your cycles have been irregular since you last gave birth - you may not be pregnant. If you have done a test then you have to take whatever child God has deemed to give you - and hope that it is healthy.

    I agree with the previous post that you need to grow up somewhat and stop procreating like it is some kind of hobby.

  • 1 decade ago

    why should you care whether you have a Boy or a Girl? Both genders are just as good as the other.

    Plus, why would waiting two years ensure you would get a boy?

    Just keep the child, if its a Boy, that's good, if it's a Girl, that;s good as well.

    Just don't have an abortion your reasons are just not justifyable enough and trust me, you would feel awful afterwards.

    Maybe if you were raped or the child was really ill or could harm you the mother then i would possibly suggest abortion but with just the reasons above, that is just not justfiable for an abortion.

    I mean, listen to yourself, you would abort your baby just because it is female. Honestly, that is horrible. Same with the people above, you make me sick.

  • 1 decade ago

    i don't know how u can say that u should be happy with what u got there is people that will never have children and because its not what u want u think of having an abortion i don't know how u could do that. least ur husband has the right idea. its people like u that people that can have children hate has u click your fingers and become pregnant and coz the baby's not what u want u think about having an abortion its wrong i hope u can life with yourself

    Source(s): 18 weeks pregnant with baby no1 due 26th jan 2010 after 4 years of trying and 2 baby angels
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sweetie, lots of women out there cant get pregnant and they would do anything to have just ONE CHILD. your going to have an obortion just because its a GIRL thats really bad. how do you think your daughters might feel when they hear about this? PEOPLE LIKE YOU DONT DESERVE CHILDREN THAT MAKES ME REALLY SAD.

    you will never have a baby boy forget it. Your evil

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You don't NEED a son at all. Pregnant already? My advice to you is grow up and ffs get a tele and stop breeding like a rabit, it's not a game or a competition.

  • 1 decade ago

    A baby is a gift of god boy or a girl and for me an abortion will not be an option. why do you NEED a boy?

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If you wanted to wait 2 years you should've practiced safe sex. All abortions are not immoral; this one certainly would be.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    are you for real, your considering an abortion because it might be a girl.

    i think that's disgusting, it's a blessing to have a baby be lucky that you can have children

  • 1 decade ago

    What would i do?

    Keep the baby. You get what you're given. You should be grateful.

    BTW there are no '?' in this. Hard to tell what you are actually asking.

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