Does your boyfriend go out with his female friends?

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My boyfriend and I have a mutual friend on facebook. In her status today she wrote that she is going to the lil wayne concert. He commented and said that someone asked him to go but he thought that our baby would have been born by now. As I'm pregnant and my due date is friday. I know for a fact that it was a female friend. I trust him but I don't like that he goes out with them. I have mentioned this to him before and we basically get nowhere, even though he doesn't do it as much but still. I don't have many male friends but the ones that I do have I don't go out with. They do sometimes ask for us to go out, I have no attraction to any of them but they are really cool friends, but I do wanna go sometimes because I don't have anything to do and kinda because my boyfriend does it and I used to not wanna go because I thought it was outta respect for him. But I wouldn't be wrong if I went right? These are all basically friends from elementary or college.

Mi MI · Accepted Answer

if you both trust each other u should be able to hang out with anyone u want to and vice versa

john smith · Answer

just because they are females doesn't mean your boyfriend is cheating on you (depending on the guy you went out with). Sometimes a guy needs a friend that is a girl to give him advice about their significant other because they know more about females than guys do (because they are females). Since you are about to become pregnant, he might need some time off before he spends time trying to raise the child with you. Also guys need space to do what they like to do, sometimes they feel more free without having their significant other their, if you allow him space your relationship should continue being healthy. Do not worry and do not stress okay? And hope you do good when you become a mother.

Estrella · Answer

if i knew these girls to and i knew they weren't going to be bitchy and try to get with my boyfriend behind my back to make themselves feel "hot" for getting with someone else's boyfriend (i have friends that do this to others boyfriends!!! girls do this a lot!) if i knew they weren't like that id let him go out with them, but if i wasn't pregnant then my boyfriend would always invite me anyway so it has never been a problem, though of course if i was pregnant and didn't want to go he knows i would be fine with it. you can certainly go out with your guy friends to, how is it disrespectful to go out with friends? don't see them as "male" or "female" see them purely as friends, its when couples acknowledge that they are male or female that jealousy and problems occur, there's no need if they are just friends. good luck with your baby and go out and have fun after the birth, give yourself some "you time"

Anonymous · Answer

even though it hard trust him . Use this as test .Dont constantly question him .give him a sexy reminder of what he has back home  and believe me he wont want to cheat after that

Anonymous · Answer

yes my he is allowed to go out with his female friends because i trust him

Toekneean · Answer

no u wouldnt be wrong if u went out wiht guy friends theyre just friends i hang out wiht guys somethimes...not alone cause thats weird but ya and no my bf dosent hang out wiht other girls...if he did i would be like really jealous but like at the same time i wouldnt cause i do the same thing but i dont like them soo idk

? · Answer

yeah,if he can go out with his freinds why cant u?

Chunky Butt · Answer

If he can, then you can to.

And if he has a problem with it say "how's it feel?"

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