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How can I talk to him/get his attention?

m not the type of person to fall for a guy at first sight.

So, theres a guy transferred from another school to mine this year. And, the second I saw him, I insantly couldn't stop staring. I've noticed hes really shy, he just watches the ground, and I love shy guys.

I stare at him a lot, and he looks back and people tell me he looks at me a lot. I don't know if he likes me or not.

I really like him, but I haven't even spoked to him. How can I make conversation thats suttle? I don't want to flat out approach him randomly, im SUPER shy with new people.

I really like this guy, and I need help. Btw, Im in 8th grade. :)

3rd time asking this. Does nobody answer questions nowadays?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just try to talk to him. Ask him how he likes the school, or a certain teacher. Make conversation about homework you both had, something, anything.

    New people like having friendly people around.

    Try to be less shy. Act like he's just another friend, and get to know him. Then maybe something will happen and you guys will get closer and go from there.

    Will you answer mine? It is similar, kind of, and I have asked it a lot as well, with no luck.

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al5gm...

    Thanks!

    Good luck!

  • Flow
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    im going through the same thing and im a sophomore in college. i feel weird being able to relate in this kind of situation to a 8th grader...maybe i should re-evaluate my life lol jk anyway well find a time where he is alone and go up and talk to him just say "hey, my name is____, how are you liking school so far?" idk just say something that is friendly and not a yes or no question. be yourself it will make the situation less awkward. if he doesn't open up all the way that's ok you can always come up and talk to him again and maybe he will slowly open up if not all the way. hope this helps or at least a little bit.you have nothing to loose. just remember that you have to start slowly first acquaintance then friends then who knows what :) don't rush it!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey, I know how you feel. I kind of experience that before. Firstly, you have to remember that that guy may be wanting to talk to you too. So, there is no need to be shy.

    Don't just look at him. Do smile at him. Just to make sure that he is really checking you out. this is to get things started between the two of you. You just have to say a simple 'hi'. Everything will flow from there.

    I hope this helps.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well if i were you i would walk up to him in the hallway or in class and ask him where he is from and what it was like where ever it is that he came from. ask him if he likes it at ur school and what kind of change it has been for him ask him if hes made any new friends or anything like that and then later on ask him if he wants to hang out. Thats what i would do. GOOD LUCK GRLY!!!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Try having a friend do a lil sumthin to get yall to talking. Stick a note in his locker or sumthin. You have to do SOMETHING to let him know that you like him or that your interested because just by staring he'll or you will never know what going on. But maybe you will just have to get enough guts && approach him first!. Hope this helps :)

  • 1 decade ago

    your in eighth grade so it honestly shouldnt be that hard to go talk to him.

    just walk up, be confident and start a convo.

    I understand that your shy but if you honestly want to gain any headway with this guy you need to get past obsessivly staring at him and wondering what MIGHT happen.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i dont know if he likes u cuz maybe hes just staring at u cuz your staring at him LOL

    anywho yeaa make friends with him cuz hes new and needs friends.

    just be like hiii whats your name what school did u come from

  • 1 decade ago

    hey....just go to this guy and ask him for some notes which u didnt complete.....open up ur friendship first and then if u think that he really likes u then go for dating

    seeya :)

  • aha

    how i got the attention of the guy i like was by looking at his eyes and he would look back

    and my friend sabrina is really good friends with him his name is jake

    so jake was like so whos your friend me im andrea haha and she was like andrea so i came back from getting a drink and he introduced him self to me and shook my hand haha i thought it was cute and he was like im jacob blah blah and the whole lunch we would stare at eachothers eyes so then after class we have chemistry together he waited for me and asked for my number and now hes almost mine haha so talk to him if he doesnt have the balls to talk to you duh!

  • 1 decade ago

    approach him when he's alone in a casual situation, ask him 'bout class or something...

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