First date accepted pretty quickly, site unseen. Should I be uneasy?

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She immediately accepted, from her cell phone, without having the chance to view my profile.

I'm new at dating, so I know I'm pretty naive about things. I sent an e-mail 99% expecting no answer. Now that I got a reply, I'm like "holy s***! What now?"

I'm thinking there must be something wrong with this girl for her to accept a date so quickly. Am I just looking a gift horse in the mouth? Keep in mind, she is an attractive bartender at a popular bar. 

Below are the e-mails we've exchanged: 

Hi Whatever-Your-Name-Is,
I read your profile and I am TOTALLY someone who likes to chill out, have a good time, and see what happens! (taken from her profile)
Here's my plan -- let me know what you think: We go out for a drink or ten and smoke a bunch of crack. If we hit it off, maybe we can watch 'It's Always Sunny,' or something. As long as it's not Lifetime or HGTV (these two options are not do-able in my book). Or if you would prefer something short & sweet, I'm ok with that. In fact, if you're too lazy for any of that, that's cool with me. Just no HGTV, for the love of God.

And I'm being sincere about everything but the crack.

~Anthony


From her:
hey anthony yeah for sure sounds good. When are you free? I work 6 days so... (her name)

Me: 
I'm free tonight after 7pm, Wednesday night after 9:30pm, Friday night, and Saturday night. If neither of those days work for you, I may be able to make other arrangements. Let me know! ~Anthony


Her:
Hey anthony.. Sorry I was at work all day till bout an hour ago.. What's your schedule like? I am workin every night this week wed I won't be done till bou 11-12... So why don't you give me a call sometime we can figure somethin out. My number is XXX XXX XXXX give me a call whenever and we can figure something out. K have a good night - (Name)

Note: I'm not a player. When I mention watching "It's Always Sunny," I'm being sincere. I'm not planning on having sex with her, but do you think that she might expect that?

Terri A · Accepted Answer

My advice would be to not go out on the first email but to spend some time getting to know each other online so that you can get an idea of who it is your about to start a serious relationship with.

I know these online dating sites can be a little scary at first but I do belive it is best to get to know someone via email and then you can exchange # and get together.  It's just word of caution, good luck!

Agent Orange · Answer

She seems like a friendly person who is open to meeting someone new and possibly see where it leads. So if I were in your position I would call and speak to her when you get a chance and make plans.

As for inviting a woman over to your house to watch It's Always Sunny if you don't really know the person - or even well enough, it gives the wrong impression that you may be looking for something more sexual even if that's not your intention.

makeloans2 · Answer

For the first date, you should probably not invite her to your place. If you don't know someone, that's kinda creepy. I know I would not go to someone's house when I really didn't know them better.
For a first date, meet somewhere, have dinner and maybe go to a club or movie and then somewhere you can talk - like maybe for coffee or a nightcap.
Get to know her first. Glad you are not planning on having sex. That's also too creepy to expect that on a first date unless you know her to be a slut.

? · Answer

Wow, it incredibly is gloomy. attractiveness is interior the attention of the beholder, and everybody is captivating of their own way. i do no longer think of it incredibly is honest or severe high quality in any respect. I think of everybody on that internet site has 2 issues in easy: they're in many cases frequently happening as captivating, and that they are caught-up snobs.

Ms Lety · Answer

Let her have it..... :)

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