only guys and girls that are 17years or older.SEX question?

just be you.

If he's vulgar about it or too graphic you have every right to tell him to stop, virgin or not. He sounds upset because you're shutting him down. However if that's all he can talk about he has the problem, not you. If he's open and honest, ask him some questions. Guys LOVE to feel like the authority on sex even when we aren't! LOL. If he's just doing it to torment you then get rid of him.

You may not want to hear this, but he's not right for you.

If you are uncomfortable with or don't know how to talk about sex, then don't force it. Believe me, this happened to a friend of mine a year ago and she was a virgin and a Christian girl and believes in waiting until marriage, you know... and she dated this guy who just thought about sex and tried ALL the time! She finally "gave in" and had sex with him and changed her image and he just used her and dumped her. And she has been hurt ever since.

Long story, I know, but I wanted to use it to make a point.

you cant make him think of you as "an innocent virgin" anymore. If you start talking about sex with him, he'll think of you in a different way and think you are getting close to having sex with him. If he thinks you being an innocent girl is boring, thats his problem.

What he seems to be saying is that he liked the idea of hooking up with a virgin. But since you don't want to have sex with him, it's not all that cute. He wants to talk about sex because he's horny. He might think if you talk about sex you'll get horny and give in.....DON'T

He's not worth it. He seems to be interested in scoring more than anything else. Stay true to yourself.

He's a sh!thead and an a**hole and you shouldn't honor him telling you you're boring and not cute with your virginity, or with any sort of sexual encouragement. Because once you do that he'll see that it's not only okay to put you down like that but it *works* and he'll do it again and again until you f*ck him.

I legitimately got mad when I read that.

He's what we like to call a d*cksneeze- nothing but a cumshot. Dump him. You can clearly do much better.

He sounds shallow. There's a zillion more interesting things to talk about than sex. If he thinks you're boring just because you don't want to talk about sex, odds are he's the boring one and you should ditch him.

hi sweatheart,

I want to be honest with you. To me, this guy sounds like he is pressurising you for sex. Don't change who you are for anyone, if he can't accept you for who you are now, and he thinks that is "boring" then I don't think he really wants to be with you. Some guys are after one thing and one thing only, and to be honest, he seems like one of those guys. i don't want to patronise you but don't do anything you don't want, no matter what he says, only when you are ready.

good luck

Sorry but this guys seems like that is all he wants and he is getting tired of waiting. He wants sex and u ain't playing his game. Don't lose it to this douche

YES. (: I like it a looott. Mostly when its over the 0 gauge. But smaller is good too. I have 00s. But go for it. (:

talking about sex does not make you a slut. if you are both ready for sex, or maybe just oral sex or mutual masturbation, then talk about it. when you can talk about things it can bring you closer, and he'll be happy. if he is continuing to talk about it, its probably because he wants it, but thats up to you. talk about things you are willing to do to him and what you want him to do to you. make it sexy. youre not a slut unless you talk about that with multiple guys, which obviously isn't happening