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What about this girl?
A few months ago I went out to this show, met this girl, danced with her for awhile, then we made out outside the bar, she invited me back to her hotel room, I slept with her, she was still happy to see me in the morning, we made out again, she drove me back to my apartment. She lives in another town, I haven't seen her since. The same band is coming back in a couple of weeks, so I'm just wondering should I message her or something, or should I just go and hope for the best? Her friend hooked up with the fiddle player, so depending on what that turned into, the odds might be good. I'd be happy to see her again, I'm just not terribly experienced with one night stands, any advice?
I don't think most of you get it. It was a one night stand. I added her on myspace a few days later, and other than recommending a band that had come through my town and was going to her town, I haven't spoken to her. Really, my heart has nothing to do with this, so don't tell me to follow my heart, it was a hook-up, nothing more. There is no budding relationship here, I just want to get in her bed again. Understand?
11 Answers
- 1 decade ago
Take it as one night stand, and if you see her again and things happen again, then maybe you have upgraded to a friends with benefits.
But if you haven't talked to her since the night, i wouldn't talk to her unless you see her face to face
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I would have to say play it cool and just hope for her to show up a the concert. No one likes a guy who acts desperate, calling would make you look desperate.
- ?Lv 61 decade ago
It sounds like you're interested in her. Message her. See if she's going. Ask her if she'd like to go with you.
Only then will you know where you stand.
edit: Then message her and ask her if she's going to the show and ask if she wants to hook up again that night.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
u were the one night stand for her, get over her. if it happenes again wit her good but just remeber its not a call text all the time thing its just one night f*ck
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- KatieeLv 41 decade ago
I'd definitely contact her and see if she's going to the show! If not, then ask her to join you.
It's really just a guessing game, go with your heart!
-Katie
- Anonymous1 decade ago
if you really liked this girl you woulda stayed in contact with her. it sounds like your just looking for a fun time. and she probably has moved on if she is into one night stands
- Anonymous1 decade ago
How long ago was this?
The only way to find out if she's bothered is if you make contact... Say hi, if she asks who you are, then tell her... If she replies 'who is that?'... then give up :).
Simple.
Good luck haha.
- 1 decade ago
I think you should definitely send her a message. Because if you don't she might not show up.. then what will you do?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yes, ask questions like this on yahoo answers. if you need to talk to someone. talk to your friends.
what kind of conversations do you have with your friends if you dont talk to them about stuff like this?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yeah man why not? you've got nothing to lose
