Why does she react to my attentions this way.?

Sounds like your wife had some type of anxiety with having a tense chest and rapid heartbeat, or she felt it this way, and you feeling her up wasn't what she had on her mind.

Maybe the next time you could ask: "is something bothering you hon"?

It sounds like neither of you got the response you wanted.

Man I feel it for you!!! I am in the same situation. My wife and I was wild and adventurous while dating she now looks at me as a pervert, if I want to make out in the car or somewhere other than our bed. I love taking photos of her even when she is sleeping, she says that am obsessed with her and does not respond fondly to my comments on her body. Firstly, if you have recently had children, your wife may have problems with her self image, you need to encourage her to get of her *** and get fit or buy her some new cloths (sexy) or a make up kit of she does not have one. Take her out, man dinner, dancing, she may want to be romanced. She may be losing feelings for you and now is the time to make a hard effort to rebuild your romance. You need also to talk to her and listen to what her needs are women tend to shut down sexually if they feel neglected or lonely. Man we often wants our wife to be our greatest fan as we play hero to the world and we forget that we need to be theirs too. Secondly, if this kind of thing has been going on for long and she has been a bit abusive to you, especially developing a "don't care attitude" you may have an affair on your hands or a women preparing to walk out on you, open your eyes and pay attention to your home. Finally, She maybe was just not in the mood being scared to death about a possible heart skip or racing that would have passed by the time your hand got there, leaving the fact that you showed no empathy for her but went straight to sexual desires. Next time rest your head on her breast if she comfortable with it and listen for a while or ask to place your ears on her back where you can listen to her heart. Its great to know what is a normal heart rate of your spouse, health wise, its also a great sign of love and care. Hope this helped.

She was having what she thought was a medical issue, PLUS

the fact that you were driving a car at the time, and YOU got

your feelings hurt because she didn't want you to grope her

in the car? why don't you grow the hell up?

Well it sounds like your lady could care less about your needs. As well as your touch not doing a thing for her. Of course if this is an on going thing. Then again your wife was worried about her health and it wasn't the best time to be getting sexual. That was pretty inconsiderate.

Your wife wasn't feeling well and she made that clear. Why couldn't you have understood that she wanted some kindness and sympathy? It wasn't an invite to fondle her. Next time, forget about her boobies and consider where her head is at.

Tell her that you felt that way, but that your sorry. Its no big deal really, she was just not in the mood. Don't take it too personal.

I feel sorry for your poor wife..She might have had a medical problem and all you wanted was to feel her breast.. Grow up !!! You felt hurt !! Poor baby.. She should have slapped the hell out of you ...

She's right. She only asked you to feel her heart beat not feel her up. Don't be hurt all husbands do it, it's just us wives who have to accept it.

On that specific incident she was feeling like maybe she wasn't well. Her mind was on hear health not on sex. Perhaps your timing is bad.

Maybe you were a little too gropy and she was up for romance.

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