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Everyone makes fun of me... HELP! I FEEL SO ALONE?

So I go to a small liberal arts college in Virginia, and I have a fetish that many of my peers have, yet I'm criticized for it! So, I'm a black male, but I prefer white females. I also don't like to be in relationships, but I don't see it as "running through all the white girls".

My suite mates last year were REALLY cool, but they make fun of me because I only like white girls. They even made a juicy campus post about me, and one of them made me their #5 greatest Villain on his Facebook, why? I never did anything to him except keep the bathroom door locked constantly so he can't get in and try to get into his room at 2am and never waving when I see him.

I'm just so nervous around them! I'm not weird, I just like white girls. HELP!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    wow your suite mates sound really cool. i wish i was thier friend.

    but regarding your problem: i have no idea youre screwed

  • 1 decade ago

    Dont worry i know how u feel.....So what if u like withe girls?

    they r making a big deal about it......they just dont know who 2 pick on and are bored. Just ingnored them, Try to stay away from them.............they wouldnt like it if someone was picking on them. Have u talked to them of how it makes u feel? Trust me, they r just bored and they just nt happy with their lives. But if it's really that bad, u should tell someone about this so they could talk to them. If you keep it up with them, they r just going to pick u more, so it's just better to not even talk to them. Act as if u dont know they are there and then they will see that ur nt paying attention to them....and they will stop. By the way there is nothing wrong that u like white girls ok?

    Everyone if different and who knows they probably like something no one would have ever though.

    Good luck!

    :)

    Source(s): experienced having to deal with ppl who wont leave me alone.
  • 1 decade ago

    The thing is inside you. If you feel hurt it is because something inside you is not working well. I mean, about you accepting yourself. Fine, you like them, and I think it is ok, there are no rules about likes and dislikes. Be happy with your decision, and do not change because of the others. About your friends, leave them think and say whatever they want about you, they cannot hurt you anyway, if you are sure about it. On the other hand, there must be sth you show them that they love making fun of it, some responses you give them, maybe. That's why I told you, be happy with yourself first and be brave enough to face your friends, not responding them but showing that it is not affecting you in anyway and won't make you change your mind but that everything is ok with them, nothing is gonna change because of your decisions. Good luck!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow, well there is nothing wring with that at all. and just ease up around them. Maybe even find something to tease them about :p

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