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A dream I had many years ago that I told my girlfriend.?

I tell all my dreams to my girlfriend (now fiance), due to the fact that I rarely have dreams and when I do they are very real and vivid and almost always come true. Now, there is this one dream that I had many years ago that for some reason she won't let go and brings it up from time to time. It goes like this I'm back in High School and I guess I'm the popular kid 'cause I have a whole bunch of people surrounding me and walking along with me talking to me. As I am walking to my next class I pass by the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and she is standing in front of her locker with some friends. I look at her and she looks at me but the look is more than just noticing each other it's a look of love at the first sight. But we both continue on what we were doing. After class I went back to her locker to see if she was there and she was. So I mustered enough strength to go talk to her because her beauty was intimidating and I let her know right away that I think she is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and that I like her and she replied back that I caught her eye too and would love to get to know me. I smiled and asked her what her name is, she replied "PonyTail" I smiled again 'cause I have never heard of a name like that before, it was unique and beautiful, so I told her my name. I offered to walk her to her class which she did not deny my request and to my surprise we were holding hands and walking. That is when my dream abruptly ended and I woke up sweating like I have been jogging for miles. Now, on another note when I do dream, people in my dreams, when they talk I can never ever understand what they are saying, just gibberish comes out and for someone to finally talk and understand what they are saying and to give me a name even I thought something odd about it. The name also left me curious and the only thing I can think of is that it is an Native American name and that in some odd way I connected with someone real but in my dreams.

Because of this dream my girlfriend is very jealous, which she did admit too but I feel there is a lot more to this, a lot. She brings it up but then doesn't want to talk about it and if we do she drills me about it like I have some secret agenda.

What do you folks think about this?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I think you and your fiance must relax. you obviously love her and picked her cause your engaged right. and she obviously loves you cause you accepted.

    Pony Tail in your dream may have been from a time when you werent sure that you are ready to settle down, a way of telling yourself its ok i do have other options.

    It is possibble that you actually did meat her in an out of body experience, perhaps a previous life.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    well this can happen for certain reasons. Everyone is going to say you miss her and want her back. This is true but it is not the only one. It might be because you loved the sex or you cant find anyone else like her. If you still have contact with her that also may be why. Try talking to her and tell her how you are feeling right now

  • 1 decade ago

    ok there is a difference between love and lust ... the girl in the dream is probably what you feel you want to be with because of her beauty and the dream was probably vivid because it meant a lot to you at the time but your fiance is with you because of love ... love cannot be based on looks and charm it is who you feel is right and you have chosen to be with now so as they say let sleeping dogs lay

  • 1 decade ago

    My old psychotherapist told me dreams may mean different things in different cultures, but in general from a psychological perspective it is all about how you feel. MAybe you can ask yourself how that made you feel and see what answer you get.

    About your gf's jealousy, tell her the girl may have been her, and just reassure her that you love her.

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