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Easy ten points? I think so...?

Okay... so there's this guy, and i'm trying to figure out whether or not he's gay. Yes... i know it's none of my business, and if i like him then it's a lost cause, and i know i won't be sure until i ask him... blah blah... i already know- i answer a lot of questions on here similar to this.

Some things he's said:

-"That guy from 10,000 BC is hot. Never mind, forget i said that."

-Me: "Can i ask you something?"

Him: "Am i gay?"

Me: "Um.. no, i wasn't going to ask that..."

-Him: "Ooh, you workout?"

Me: "Kind of, yeah."

Him: "Ooh, flex!"

What do you think?

And no stupid answers.

:]

Update:

Also: he's never had a girlfriend.

and he never talks about who he likes.

Update 2:

Yes, I'm interested in him

and above where i put him saying: "Am i gay?" it was meant to sound more like: "Were you going to ask if i am gay?"

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think he's questioning his sexuality and/or ashamed of it. Talk to him about it in an open manner. Don't make fun of him or he'll coil away and feel uncomfortable. My guess is that he's either gay or questioning. Good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think he may be, just go up and flat out ask him if he's gay or not. I've had this problem before the best way to find out is just to ask. hope I helped can I get best answer? I need the points

  • Chances are good.

    But it also sounds like he could be in denial or ashamed of admitting it. He could also still be in the "questioning" stage of his sexuality. I'd proceed with extreme caution on this one.

    But if he was the first to bring up "Am I gay?" he's probably ok with you asking.

  • auty
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I think he's trying to come out to you. The no girlfriends and Am I gay told it, if that was a past conversation.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ya, i also agree with Tyler...Have a nice conversation with him...then ask...

    [haha, that was weird/funny at same time xD] Him: "Ooh,flex!"

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with Tyler, talk to him about it.

    He's probably confused or whatever.

    Just make sure that when you talk to him you make sure that you dont sound like a threat. Be a friend to him, be that shoulder he could cry on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hes probably waiting for you to ask him if he's gay. I don't know how it could be any more obvious.

  • Jay
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like it to me. "Ooh, flex!" - LOL!

    I reckon you might be in with a chance.

  • 1 decade ago

    well nothing is for sure but i say 70% he is bi/gay 30% straight lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he is definitely gay

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