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homecoming advice 10 points?

ok so this one kid asked me homecoming and i told him i didnt want to go because i went with him last year and it wasnt fun so i told him i didnt want to go because of the stress and hassel of getting a dress and such. then another guy asked me but instead of just asking me he put a bear he made at buildabear with my schools color bows with a flower and a rose in a box and that had a rign that said HOMECOMING and left it on my doorstep. it was really cute so i feel bad saying no to him after all that time and effort but i feel bad for the other kid if i went after what i told him...help?? 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER!

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oh and i dont really like the 2nd guy...at least i dont think i do. i still dont know yet! and i dont think i really wanna go to homecoming and dance with him and the first guy isnt going to homecoming anymore so i couldnt dance with him there.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    If you like the second boy then you should go with him, dont just go with him because he made you a bear its not worth it. just go and have fun you dont HAVE to start dating after one dance together.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah. I'd say this is a difficult situation.

    Well- in my opinion

    You only live once. A few years down the road and either guy will get over the fact that you rejected them. I'm sure you will too. Maybe even months afterward.. That is if they are truly interested in you. Go with the guy you are interested in, look hot, have a great time.

    The second guy sounds really thoughtful. And being as you already went with the first kid last year, just explain to him that you would like to go with someone else this year. If that doesn't work.. start suggesting other girls (maybe one of your friends) that he could take to the dance.. just to get him off your case.

    =]

    Have fun!!!

    Source(s): 4 Years of highschool experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    Go with the bear guy if you like him. He sounds fun and nice and outgoing, and if you didn't have fun last year make sure you do this time. He's the best choice. If you feel bad telling the other guy or about him finding out, remember how you felt last year. It's not mean to turn him down if you really didn't like him or have a good time. If he asks you why you went with the other guy tell him that you wanted to go with someone new and that you really didn't have fun at last year's. If he doesn't understand he's not even worth the explanation. Bear guyh's definitely the best choice.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    It helps taking the high heels off while dancing. It's less painful. Oh and wearing a short dress makes it easier to dance. Maybe drink water instead of soda or something that may make you burp. Bring extra pads and tampons juuuust incase (you never know when it'll happen..or if someone one else needs one) All in all though. Just make sure you have a good time! =]

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  • 1 decade ago

    Go with the kid that gave u the bear. If the other guy asks just say i always liked this kid. That's why i said no to you. A little white lie is fine. Right?

  • 1 decade ago

    If you really want to go to homecoming then go! You probably never see the guy you said no to after High School. Eat lunch with him or something and apologize for saying no to him. You only saw you two as friends and it made you nervous to know he wanted to go with you. Go to homecoming and have fun :]

  • Go with the new guy, and explain to the old guy you really like this new guy. Also you could always dance with the old guy at homecoming a few times.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell the 1st kid who asked you that what you said was true and also that you knew he could get another date. Also tell him that you didnt think any other girl would say yes to the 2nd guy, so you did out of the kindness in your heart.(:

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There is no hassle in getting a new dress for HOMECOMING. It's the best part of your high school experience! You can find inexpensive dresses at Macy's or JCPenny, or you can re-wear your dress from a previous experience with different accessories and hair! Please don't break this boy's heart, and be kind!

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You could always wear last year's dress, and if he asks what happened you can say "well I realized if I wore last year's dress I wouldn't be stressed, and I figured you already had a date so I went with whatshisface".

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