What does it mean to break a girl?

You pick the girl up, jump up into the air, scream at the top of your lungs, and when you come down you SLAM that beeatch over your leg, breaking her in half. Usually done when your dinner's not ready on time.

Breaking A Girl

When you break a horse you're pretty much taming the horse to the point to where you can sit on its back without it bucking you off... so that it can be ridden.

I'm assuming when they refer to "breaking" a girl they're implying that they had sex with them or took their virginity.

if you're talking about the "pop the cherry" thing, then that means you took her virginity...

If you mean "break up with a girl", I'm sure it's obvious what the answer to that is :P

If you mean "break her heart"...well yes...

It is a vulgar expression meaning to coax a girl into losing her virginity to you.

It means to break her spirit. This generally is in context to a girl that's very independent, strong-willed or feisty, but can be for any girl/woman. The goal is to wear down her spirit to the point where she feels she's either nothing and/or nothing without you. In a casual sense, guys try to break girls all the time. When guys flirt they sometimes use back-handed compliments to wear down a girl's self-esteem. This can be b/c a girl has an unwarranted sense of self importance (ie: she has nothing going for her except her looks and vagina, but for some reason she thinks she's better than everyone), so the guy's trying to deflate her ego down to size. Or, it can be a guy trying to get a woman out of his league; he will berate her in a casual, back-handed compliment fashion to slowly wear her esteem down to where she thinks maybe she can't do better than him.

Once a guy has his foot in the door with a girl he can continue the breaking process by basically setting up double-standard scenarios. EG: he ignores her phones calls, texts, etc, leaving her in the dark, but insists she tell him everything she's doing. If she throws a fit, then he stays calm and just ignores her. But if he throws a fit he makes her life hell. This starts to make her walk on egg shells around him.

Notice that a lot of this is the same hallmarks as abuse.

None of this works unless the girl has a reason to stay with the guy, though. In some cases the girl's self-esteem is so low that she thinks she can't do any better. In other cases he's made it where it's near impossible for her to leave him (he controls all the finances, isolates her from friends/family, etc, etc, so she is absolutely dependant on him). In some cases it's b/c the guy is a very good lay (she puts up with his crap, b/c the sex is good). In some cases it's b/c he's loaded; she's a gold-digger and just putting up with his crap to keep getting a free ride (he pays for dinners, shows, drinks, trips...all of which she can't afford herself, so she sticks around).

The BDSM world also has focus on breaking a submissive / slave. However, unlike non-BDSM relationships where anything could go and the girl could end up just abused, BDSM focuses on a) figuring out what someone's needs are, b) finding ways to meet those needs in a safe, consensual fashion (by setting boundaries, by pairing up with a dominant that has dichotomous needs, eg: a dominant that likes to spank women is a good match for a woman that likes to be spanked).

In BDSM you can break a sub/slave slowly or quickly. Generally, the quicker style will be much more harsh... a reality shock. EG: Let's say a master has a new sub that's joined him. She's new to the lifestyle, and is acting bratty, hasn't gotten over her self-inflated "god's gift to the world" womanly ego entitled ways. As a way to break her he could basically have a gang-bang with her. The guys he invites over would degrade her by calling her names ("whore" being the default), pointing out how worthless she is (or saying her only worth is what she can do for men), restraining her so she feels a loss of control/power, and having sex with her as they please. All of this is intended to break her spirit.

It's multi-part, though. First there's the negative reinforcement. This is physical punishment and breaking. She's told things to do. If she talks back or doesn't perform the tasks, then she's physically punished, perhaps spanking, flogging, etc. If she struggles or resists, then she's held down, restrained, etc, and punished more. All of this is basically breaking her spirit by letting her know that she is no longer in control, and that she has to do as she's told or there will be negative repercussions to face that she won't like.

The second aspect is positive reinforcement. This is pleasure for doing things right. When she gives in to having sex with the guys the orgasms she has will release oxytocin which makes her feel good and is a human hormone that can promote addictions. The gang bang serves as a way to degrade her, make her feel like she is beneath her master and his friends, that her only purpose is to service them, etc, etc... but, she is getting a feel-good signal from it due to the orgasms and oxytocin release.

Likewise, she may be submissive/subservient, and actually want/need to be treated like this. You can't really break someone that wants to be treated like that in the first place. You can semi-break someone that didn't know they wanted to be treated like that, but afterwards realizes they do.

Breaking is usually regarded for a girl that's very strong-willed, dominant, and is being subjected to physical punishment, ordeals (eg: holding stress positions, made to perform tasks that will ensure failure, etc) to exhaust her body, wear down her mind, and eventually break her spirit.

This is an extension of how interrogators break prisoners they're quesitoning. Except in the BDSM world it's a) consensual (the sub wants to be broken), b) there are soft and hard limits (soft can be pushed, but hard limits are never crossed), and c) the sub and dom agree on the play and wants/ needs of each other before starting.

A girl can even be broken via just love. She can fall in love with a guy, and basically she's his. There's something about him that she loves... maybe his strength of character, his mind, his ability to do ... whatever. She's just smitten with him. If he yells at her, ignores her, etc, etc, then she finds out how deeply it hurts, but she can't walk away from him.

Pop the girl's cherry... make her lose her virginity.

lol, it means you stick your dick really far up her p*ssy and she ends up "breaking" in a figurative sense (only if you have a big dick of course)

You don't need to know

To put a penis in her vagina.