big ol love triangle stuff?

I need advise. I have 2 women that I love dearly and they both love me. Year ago I was with melissa and then she cheated on me so we broke up. Then I found Micki and she was great but then she started to gain allot of weight and doesn't want to work. So we broke up and went back to melissa then broke up with her to go back with micki. Well both want to be with me and they are fighting like crazy to have me. So Micki is now pregnant so I thought I would be with her. Micki doesn't want to ever work and is on welfare. She eats donuts left and right and makes me buy her things all the time but melissa has a job and house. I don't know what the heck to do. I'm not a player my feelings and guts are being torn right out of me.