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What should I do (20 characters)????

Just Monday my best friend said she would trick-or-treat with me. About an hour ago, she texted, "R u trick-or-treating with your other friend". I said no, of course. I was going with her! Then my mom said that we can trick or teart without adult supervision so I called her and my best friend said that she was invited to a "party" on Halloween and that she can't trick or treat with me. Then I hung up and she calld back saying that if I had no one else to go with, then she'd not go to her party and go with me! In other words, she thinks I have no friends. Should I pretend to cry and really make her feel bad, ignore her, or just go with my other friend (if she can) and just make her feel really bad about herself? Help, please!

Update:

And we have been trick-or-teating together since we were 3 years old.

Update 2:

Still... she thinks I have NO friends....

Update 3:

Also, I feel like I'm inviting myself if I go with my other friend.... I don't even know.... I think she alreayd has plans... so I'm screwed....

Update 4:

Also, after I got off the phone, I started to cry because she is blowing me off for some other people she JUST met! UGH!

Update 5:

I'm a teen

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  • Ellen
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    People grow up and apart. She's allowed to have other friends. Don't force her to be your friend because that will only make her resent you and destroy your friendship.

    Go trick or treating with your other friend, and wish that your friend has a good time at the party :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well, im sure you have more than 1 friend, right? just say oh, thats okay,unless your like 12 AND this is your last tme trick or treating say one last time?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ignore her.

    Try hanging out with other friends and don't ask her to hang out with you at all.

    :]

  • 1 decade ago

    ignore her! That will show her you're not in need of her.

    Source(s): Much Respect.
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  • 1 decade ago

    and how old are you?

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