Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

How do I become a better person for the girl I love?

I've messed up for 4 1/2 years. I never spend time with her and we have a date tonight and I want to be everything she wants. She deserves the best and I know I am better than what I've shown her thus far. What are some ways to make her really happy?? (:

Update:

I wouldn't be changing who I am. I just don't wanna make anymore mistakes. She loves me and she needs me to be myself and be there for her. I just want to make her happy. I've just not done that the past 4 years.

4 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    you can't.

  • 1 decade ago

    First, you shouldn't ever change who you are for someone else. If you truly think that you can be a better person than explain that to her. I was in the same situation but I was on the other side.. just by showing her more attention and how much you care for her will make her start to notice that you are trying and putting effort into the relationship. Flowers or a card are always nice to receive on a date.. if that's the type of guy you are.

    Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, to start off, if you tell her those first three sentences you just typed, then I'm sure she will be impressed no matter what. Good Luck, bro.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you are trying to be something you're not, then you're destined for failure! If you can't be yourself and she can't be herself, and enjoy each others company, then you are only pretending to be something you're not to please the other person, you'll both be miserable.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.