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Finding a guy that's a virgin?

What are the chances of finding a virgin guy? I want to wait until I'm married, but not for religious reasons. In fact, I'm an atheist. What are the chances of finding a virgin guy that's not terribly/annoyingly religious? I'm guessing very slim...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Actually, you can find some attractive men with morals if you look in the right places.

    Let me be perfectly honest with you. I thought I was going to be a virgin until I married, too, and until age 21, I had never even had a girlfriend, and did not want one because I wanted to focus on school and my career. Two years ago I met this lady who had great morals, and at first I was taken aback that she had already had sex with someone else. This bothered me for a little while, but I grew to love her and I realized she was still a great person. After a few months, we started to have sex, and I did not feel bad for doing it before marriage because I loved her. Once we started having sex, I knew she was the one I was going to marry, so I asked her to marry me after about one year in the relationship and we're getting married in a couple of months, and I'm not a virgin.

    Thing is, if you're dead set on a virgin, it's ok, there are probably guys out there with good goals and morals who just haven't had sex yet because they have not found the right person to give their virginity to. The other thing is, even if the guy has only had a couple of sex partners does not necessarily tarnish his worth. I would say stick to your morals and what you believe in, but don't be afraid to dive into something that otherwise you would regret that you didn't try. In short, there are attractive guys out there (say the military) who have not had sex and want to save it for marriage/the right person, and there are guys who have lost their virginity who still have good morals.

    So too, I believe it is ok to have sex with someone before marriage if you know that is the one you're going to be with. Otherwise, I wouldn't have sex with a woman if I didn't know she was the one, but it's ok to do before the marriage. You have good morals, and all is not lost, there are options to consider!

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow looking for a guy virgin is like looking for a human with 3 feet. The chances are very slim and I would suggest looking in churches but since you are atheist you won't be going to church. You could try younger guys that are like 18 or 19. That's the age group that you will luck up and find a virgin. Anyone older you probably won't find any.

  • 1 decade ago

    Very slim. If he is a virgin it is because he is anti social or unattractive. Finding a guy that is waiting until marriage that is attractive is very slim.

    La that made no sense. Most people in general are not virgins. How is finding a girl that is not a virgin slim?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There are many virgin guys around who are attractive but feel that they don't want to commit yet.

    Analyzing data from 59 countries, British researchers have had to set aside their own preconceptions and misconceptions about sexual behavior. Published in the British medical journal The Lancet, some of the findings were surprising to many.

    People are not losing their virginity at younger ages than previous generations.

    A firm link between promiscuity and sexually transmitted diseases could not be found.

    The people who have the most sex are married folks.

    Promiscuous behavior was more prevalent in industrialized countries.

    Although, females tend to lose their virginity earlier than males, the age at first intercourse has increased for women and decreased for men.

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  • Bob
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I'm not religious

    I'm a virgin but i'm 17

    im not ugly or weird or anything I just want to wait for the right girl

    it doesnt matter to me if we are married though because marriage is just a legal document

    there are some of us out there

  • La
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    More like finding a girl who's not a virgin is slim, they don't have to try hard.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it's not a very slim chance actually.

    actually one right here. i'm awesome btw

    ^^go blow yourself, a virgin doesn't mean your unattractive but that you just havent had sex.

    adriana lima was a virgin until she got married at like 26.

  • 1 decade ago

    Chances are very slim, though if you are really up to that wait, then try dating different guys, maybe every other day. hehe.. at least your chances would rise, right?

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