How can I resolve this situation without getting my daughter's teacher disciplined or fired?

To be brutally honest, the fact that she's your daughters Teacher, isn't a good enough excuse to run off.

Leaving a semi naked, woman, who is wet for you, alone, while you run out on her, suggests that you have more underlying issues with your own sexuality, that you are maybe aware of. Did this sort of thing happen with youe ex?

Did you run out on her, thinking, "Oh my God, I can't do this, She's the mother of my children"?

Have you considered the possibility that you may be turning into a Gay?

Many people these days, are Gay, and there is no need to feel ashamed for this.

However, I would apologise to your Daughter's teacher, and explain this to her, I'm sure she will understand.

Good luck with that, btw.

Wow, that is a very unprofessional teacher on so many different levels. Firstly, teachers are not supposed to bring their personal lives to school, and they are especially not supposed to share it with their students or their parents. Some general things are okay, like if they have a dog or something, but talking about a breakup with their student's parent is out of bounds. Secondly, you don't go out with your student's parent. No explanation is really needed, you just don't do that. You should not have asked her to come out with you, because that's likely how she misinterpreted your intentions. She probably felt really foolish when she realized you weren't hitting on her and were just being nice, and so she reacted badly, but it is unacceptable to take out her frustration on your daughter. She needs to think about how her actions are affecting this innocent little girl, who probably wonders why her teacher suddenly hates her and is very confused and upset.

So what you need to do is go in and talk to her. Explain that she misunderstood what you were doing, but admit that you were wrong and it was your mistake to act in that way. But also tell her firmly that no matter how she feels about you, she has no right to take it out on your daughter, and if she cannot handle having your daughter in her class and behave maturely and professionally as a teacher should and treat your daughter as every other child, you will talk to the principal. You don't have to tell the whole story to the principal if this happens; you can just say your daughter and you are having some issues with the teacher and could the principal please talk to her. If that doesn't work, you could have your daughter switch classes, but only as a last resort.

Good luck!

??? Pal, I've been away from the ex for two years as well and let me tell you that if I was in that situation.....I'll be trying to understand what you did (didn't?), for the rest of the day, which amounts to about three hours, lol.

Anyway, you've penetrated a certain level of intimacy with the woman so going the formal route before talking to her directly would be just unkind. Arrange a meeting with her and hash that sh*t out, and for the sake of all us losers try to bang the broad. She needs it and you need it, so get it and give it. No one need get in trouble for this, you can explain to her. You can come to an "agreement" that will be good for both of you while ensuring your Daughter gets the fair treatment and proper education she deserves. The woman will probably get off on it, to be honest. From a certain point of view you could say that's exactly what she's asking for. Just don't get too serious, because if that's what's up she's a head case and you don't need that.

Have fun.

Edit: lol @ 'Beast. Occulty, you're catching teh gay!

Ouch!!!

I think you need to tread very carefully. apologies all round, you because you went further than you should have done and her for fuelling the situation. THe main problem is your daughter as normally they are in the hiddle getting it! to bring her personal life into school is wrong, (but she is only human) You have to talk to her, and get this sorted, if she is holding a grudge, then take it out on you and not your little daughter. As a last measure maybe mention the Principle, I know you dont want to do this but, it might work in getting her off your daughters case.

I wish you luck

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You need to talk to her. Just explain you are sorry you let things go too far when you never meant them too. That you hadn't planned on it: you just thought she needed someone to talk to. Say you think what happened has affected the way she treats your daughter and that is both unfair and unprofessional. If she seems understanding, apologize again and leave it at that. If she is mad or whatever add you don't want to go and talk to the school but you will have to unless she goes back to being just a teacher to your daughter.

yes and no, some have been fired but not for that reason. nobody wants to work at my school, so we have like one teacher teaching like 6 different classes. all of the teachers have either been there forever. the new ones always quit within the year. one of our teachers was laid off because he was making sexual comments to students, and another because he knew that a 13 year old student was dating a teaching assistant and he didnt report it because he thought it was a joke (the girl was talking about it in class to friends and he over heard, but he thought she just had a crush on him and was making up fantasy stories), its a shame because he was one of the few good teachers who actually gives a crap about us. i can understand why your school is like that though, it may not be fair but all businesses are like that, when the budget cuts, the new guy is the first to go.

The teacher is acting unprofessionally at best. Talk to her, tell her that going home with her was a mistake and that you had a momentary lapse in judgment and apologize.

The tell her that if this continues that you will go to the principal and school board and demand that your daughter be removed from her class and reasons will be given.

Nothing pisses a women off more than when she throws her self at you and you refuse to catch. Hopefully when your daughter repeats third grade next year she'll have a different teacher.

Here's what you do. You go up to this teacher sock her right in the kisser and say i she continues to mess around with your daughter you'll break her arm the next time.

Or you could just sleep with the woman

"go and do the left undone thing. why couldnt you do it. if i were you i would have done and penetrated her hard as she liked and do it to her everytime day or hour she liked. and more over my daughter would be at the top of all students. why do you want to punish the good lady? hope i could be in your place.."

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