Had a miscarriage 4 months ago, pregnant again but boyfriend doesnt want it this time. What to do?

Oh, don't get an abortion. You'll regret it if you do!Everyone I have ever know that got an abortion, regretted it.

Your boyfriend doesn't have to want it. It's your body. And the baby is just as much yours as it is his. If he can't deal with it, then break up with him, as hard as it might be. He will still have to pay child support whether he wants the baby or not. He isn't being supportive at all!

Just try to get a job in the mean time. Something that won't require heavy lifting or strenuous activity. You can take a maternity leave when the baby comes.

Go to the doctor and get your prenatal care. Focus on the baby and everything will be alright.

While it is not ideal, there are government programs to help people in your situation. WIC will give you free formula (formula if you don't breastfeed, if you do breastfeed, they give you free milk, carrots, cheese, eggs, cereal, etc). Welfare will help you find a job, give you food stamps, and even a daycare voucher when the baby is born. They will even pay for some schooling to get you a higher paying job to get you off welfare Of course, the goal IS to get off welfare and support yourself, but it can give you a boost if you really need the help.

Good luck, you have lots of support systems if you look for them!

I am so sorry you are going though this. I had a miscarriage in March and it was the hardest thing I have ever gone though. My boyfriend said we would try again, but then decided he didn't want to have a child but I was already pregnant. We just didn't know yet. Once I told him I was pregnant he had a similar reaction as your boyfriend. But I am 24 and he is almost 27. I told him that this is what happened and the only way this baby was coming out was for me to either have another miscarriage or it was going to be born if he didn't like it he didn't have to stay around for it. I am currently 19 weeks pregnant and we are still together. He is coming around. Just give him time. If you want this baby then keep it, DO NOT have an abortion just because he wants you too. If he loves you enough he will stick by you, and if he leaves he wasn't worth it in the first place. You can do this on your own if you have to. Once you see your baby moving around on ultrasound then feel it moving around inside you, you will know you made the right choice. There has never been a more amazing feeling for me then feeling my baby move and knowing that everything is going to be ok. Just give him some time. the initial shock will wear off and his true feelings will show through. Good Luck and I hope you make the right choice for YOU!

do not have an abortion whatever he tells you ive been there done that an thats the biggest regret of my life i could have a 2yr old child now and there is not a day that goes by i dont think about it! plus dont know where yoou stand religiously but religion or not you cant kil a baby! but i def understand where yor bf is coming from younge no money ect but that wasent the case when you guy were having unprotected sex!! which you should have been on birth control your bf the first time was probley just as much scared as excited and when you lost the baby he was probley in the clear and reliaze he wasent ready for that but if thats the case why knock you up again! yes guys will be guys be please dont listen to him that is your body!!!and if you want the baby do it! if god brings you to any situation he pull you through any situation i would def pray about it and start looking for a job and preparing to be a mother! congrads and good luck!!!

You sit down and talk to him about it, and let him know that it is your decision and he can either be there to support you, or not. Having a baby is not easy, but he should have thought about the consequences before you started having sex. If you can't handle the responsibility, then you shouldn't be having sex. Sounds like you have a tough road ahead of you; don't be afraid to seek counseling. Planned parenthood has some great resources, or talk with your regular doctor for a good referral to counselor.

If it's money he's worried about, there are many resources that you can go to for help. WIC, food stamps, medicare etc. You have a tough road ahead of you, the important thing is that you stick to your beliefs and do what is best for you; he'll be along for the ride if he's the right one for you. Best of luck, and I'm sorry you have to be in this situation.

i think he is scared because you lost the first baby don't worried about it he will come around if he don't than take care of that baby good luck to you

he's immature.doesn't know what he wants..

Don't have an Abortion!