What are ten traits you find attractive in a women? And ten you find attractive in a man?

Well, I tend to find these things attractive

Women

1. Kindness

2. Compassion

3. Outgoing

4. Motivated

5. Responsible

6. Mature

7. Emotional

8. Intelligence

9. Interesting

10. Sense of humor

Guys (Not in a gay sense or anything, just admirations with buddies and such :) )

1. Confidence

2. Bravery

3. Hard worker

4. Responsible

5. Sense of humor

6. Heroic

7. Talented

8. Gentle to things weaker

9. Good

10. Intelligence

1. Manners

2. Blue/green eyes

3. A good sense of humor

4. Tall

5. Chivalrous

6. Creative

7. Athletic

8. Caring

9. Affectionate

10. Independent

1. Her smile.

2. Her eye contact and the way she looks at me.

3. Her touchy-feelyness. Whether she puts a hand on me or not during conversation.

4. Her kindness.

5. Her height and build (small and petite).

6. Her hair.

7. Her perfume / scent.

8. Her personality.

9. Her clothing.

10. Whether or not she is ticklish.

okay, well in theory, i would want a man who was

in shape physically

handsome

kind

generous

loyal

funny

ambitious

stable (emotionally, financially)

BUT, from my track record, i seem to go for guys who are

unstable (emotionally, financially)

disloyal

funny, haha

abusive

shady

rude

so, my ideals and what i am actually attracted to when it comes down to it are unfortunately very different things :-/

in a man i like:

confidence

humor

nice hair

shy

mysterious

respecftul

friendly/ nice to get along with

musician

knows how to dress

adventurous